Not to be rude, but I cannot deal with stupid people. Please, help me. I want to bea able to accept stupid people for who they are, but I cant.
2006-12-15 04:59:08 · 14 answers · asked by King George the Wise 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I know exactly what you mean. Stupid people are ignorant and they say that ignorance is bliss. These people really are clueless. Sometimes it's hard to deal with them but someone we get through it. I have a part-time job in retail and I meet some real bozos at times. Thank goodness, I only have to deal with them for a few minutes and then, see you later! Just avoid stupid people as much as you can.
2006-12-15 05:03:29 · answer #1 · answered by Me, Myself & I 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all know impossible people. They tend to share three main characteristics: They cannot be reasoned with, they believe they can do no wrong, and they are convinced that everything is someone else's fault. If you haven't had some first-hand experience in dealing with such people, even a brief conversation can raise your blood pressure through the roof. These people may also be known to some as narcissists. Here are some insights and steps for dealing with these highly difficult people. * Recognize that impossible people exist; you will eventually encounter them. *Understand that it's not you, it's them. *Realize that you cannot deal with impossible people the same way you deal with everyone else. In some ways, they need to be treated like children. *Guard against anger. If it helps, consider the fact that your anger is actually a precious gift to the impossible person. Anything you do or say while angry will be used against you over and over again. Impossible people tend to have amazing memories, and they will not hesitate to use a nearly endless laundry list of complaints from the past against you. *Keep your cool. When the impossible person becomes hysterical (and they probably will, as this is a common trait among them), immediately "turn off" any serious consideration you had been giving them. What they are saying now should be considered gibberish. As they say, "In one ear, out the other." If at all possible, simply remain silent through the whole tirade. If that requires too much discipline on your part, make sure that anything you say tends to agree with them. Humor them. Don't ask them to calm down, because you then just invite further bombast *Avoid letting the impossible person make you into a "clone" of them. If you aren't careful, you could find yourself adopting much of the offender's own behavior, even if you aren't voluntarily trying. *Consider responding with kindness. Be kind and friendly to them. Now, don't wait on them hand and foot, as they will usually immediately take advantage of this, but treat them like you would a good acquaintance or a friend. Everyone wants attention from others, and usually these people couldn't get any positive attention during the major course of their life, so they instead act like a jerk to receive negative attention (but to them, through the negativity at least people now notice them). *Never tell others how you feel about this person. If the person, to whom you tell about the impossible behaviour of this impossible person, shares the same views as you have, then it is quite possible that this person might spread the chat you had with him/her. Then, when it reaches the ears of the impossible person in this case, regardless of the media by which this knowledge reaches him, he will make every possible attempt to degrade your image, because then he will know who started it. *Be careful with non-verbal gestures, as they may bring about misconceptions. G O O D L U C K !!!
2016-05-24 21:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need help how are you going to make it in this world thinking you are smarter than everyone else ? If for real you was this smart you would know to treat people as you would want to be treated . Some learn faster than others that doesnt mean everyone under you are stupied . Try sometime to help people learn more , maybe if you slow down with your head enlarging you could stop and know if you have this gift help others .
2006-12-15 05:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by janice a 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When your speaking with them (if they are truly stupid) at some point they will pause for a very long time to think of there next sentence, quickly duck and back away slowly. They wont even notice your gone.
2006-12-15 05:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit in your closet and close the door.
You won't even have to deal with yourself then either.
It is a good odds on bet 6 out of 10 will not fit your "profile".
Get A Grip.
2006-12-15 05:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by Get A Grip 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stupid is as stupid does.
The Ancient Irish had ten degrees of Marriage.
The tenth degree of marriage for between two idiots....
Maybe they will breed each other out to extinction.
You cannot argue with them, you cannot live them and you cannot kill them......
Me?
I simply say things that confuse and confound them.
They become uncomfortable with the prospect that they are out of their league and leave me alone. They try to say things that will sound witty or wise. I reply with something that makes them THINK (something they are not very good at to begin with.)
2006-12-15 05:06:08 · answer #6 · answered by wolf560 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When they are doing some thing stupid just give them a blank look and they will just walk away usually. It also freaks them out because they don't understand why you are doing it to their stupid A**!
2006-12-15 05:03:40 · answer #7 · answered by Just Me 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Funny question.Well, I guess the best thing is to avoid them as much as possible.
2006-12-15 05:05:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop asking stupid question
2006-12-15 05:01:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First learn how to spell the word be in your statement, when you accomplish that task...we will get right back to you!
2006-12-15 05:01:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋