Ok i have this best friend she's really sweet and kind to everyone...but everyone keeps making fun of her..ok she jus turned 20 years old she got married at 19...she has been married for 5 months but she was with the guy for like a year almost two years and they love each other a lot i mean a lot! But b4 they got married he turned 18 and she was 19 and he moved in with her and her mother she was still livin with her mom bc she was doing school and trying to work but not gettin enough. Well now they are married and they are living with her mother still...well her husband had a car so they could both get to work but his mother was a ***** and took it so they lost their jobs they would have the money b4 to move out but they had to spend it to get the car back so they could work again so now they are payin her mother rent to stay upstairs until they get into shape again to move out right now one is workin at sears and one is at mcdonalds it will take them a while to get out is it right....
2006-12-15 04:44:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tha t people make fun of her for all this she is trying her best and she cries a lot bc she thinks that she is ruining her moms life by staying there bc she gets less food stamps now...but she still goes to school it's her last year! she got held back then failed but now back on track...is this bsd? should ppl be judging her badly?
2006-12-15 04:46:03 · update #1
Yes, it's right. They are young. They need some family & friend support. It's hard when you first start out. They'll learn from their mistakes & if you're so concerned with them maybe you should talk to them sincerely as a friend. Explain to them that maybe you've been there before or maybe not I don't know but explain to them that they will need better paying jobs to get out on their own. Be a BEST FRIEND~
2006-12-15 04:48:05 · answer #1 · answered by Jaysangl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes life is tough especially for those less fortunate and have no support from family which is the case here let people say what they want they obviously have no lives to talk about someone that is going thru a hard time but hey you never know maybe one day they'll get a break and get good jobs so on then when its time to take care of the mom theyll remember how she treated them i think shes wrong she should be more supportive to them unless they did not appreciate her or disrespected her house or rules then i can understand somewhat just tell your friends to stay strong and work hard but do not settle for less just because they work at mckyd's and sears doesnt not mean they have to stay there in sears there is room for advancement so just work hard and maybe get promoted one day meanwhile look for other things just keep your eyes and ears open for other possible employment you never know some people get lucky i hope it works out for them =)
2006-12-15 12:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by bkgrl718 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty bad, but some people just have that kind of luck. Looks like the best thing would be for them to move away from all of that. Working at McDonalds or Sears isn't gonna cut it. Maybe they should go back to school. And for God's sake...don't have any kids.
2006-12-15 12:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by SamIam82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to take time, but there is nothing wrong with the situation. I mean if they are happy together and the mother as no problems with them staying upstairs. I dont see why people make fun of her.
2006-12-15 12:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by manicantputmyname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its both. but all they can do is pray and hope that everything will work out. one of them needs to get aonther job and start saving. work enough to pay rent for about 3 months and then the money that they make in those 3 months can go towards investing in a car and possibly their own apartment.
2006-12-15 12:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its wrong that people are judging her like that, Love is love and they are at lease trying there best, I mean thats just wrong that people will do something like that to her. just wrong as hell. But as the saying is life his hard but at the end it'll come out. so as long as you are around you can help them out can't you. I know how she feels too.
2006-12-15 12:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by eclipsefreak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and THAT is why you shouldn't get married so young! Get on your feet learn what you like and don't like and get married in your mid-20's when you have a clue what life is about!
2006-12-15 12:46:49 · answer #7 · answered by Trevor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right.
2006-12-15 12:46:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats WRONG, she is 20 years old her mother should not treat her that way at all, if i were her i would leave so fast......
mothers, always mothers
2006-12-15 12:49:54 · answer #9 · answered by JUSTAGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't anyone use punctuation? Is this the result of "no child left behind"?
2006-12-15 12:46:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋