What is married life like when you are married to a MUSICIAN???
2006-12-15 04:34:16 · 17 answers · asked by JAG 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Horrible. You will never see him at night. You will never go out with him on the weekends unless it's to one of his gigs. He will always come home with floozies. He will never be faithful to you, and he will be doing a lot of drugs. Plus, you'll never have any money coming in from him.
2006-12-15 04:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't speak about being married to musician, I'm not sure what that would have to do with his occupation. So long as he is faithful to you and places you first in life. Of course if he is a drinker and travels with his band a lot the chances of infidelity go up drastically.
2006-12-15 04:45:33 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Curious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its supposed to be who you marry not what they do... but money does help. I would think the questions are the same for any couple regardless of occupation, because occupations change, people lose jobs, get sick, change careers/interests.... marriage is a lot of work...but its simple. It boils down to willingness. Are you willing to do whatever it takes to nurture your marriage and this other person? The deal breaker is that it always has to be two yesses....even one no is a deal breaker. I would suggest two
things.... if in doubt wait. Two... contact a local clergy and sit down with them....even if you don't belong to a church....ask someone who does to recommend a reverend or pastor. They marry people all the time (and many are married themselves). They can help you ask the right questions about marriage and better prepare for this step. I am not pushing anything just saying these are the marriage experts... why not ask them? Besides that we all believe in something.....and a clergy can help you understand each others values and beliefs/expectations in a way you never did before...At least they did for us; we were amazed at all the things we had never really thought about... My husband works in a job that is seasonal in nature and he has long hours part of the year and no money part of the year.... it took us WAY TOO LONG to figure out how to budget that lifestyle... so if the nature of your fiance's music career is that he has times of the year that are more busy, I'd also recommend talking to a financial advisor who can help you plan for that. My husband was happy with a simple lifestyle.. I was expecting to buy the house and start building up... He saw himself building his career (and he did). But I was frustrated by the slow seasons and constantly pushing myself to make up for the low funds. I really wore myself thin until I started talking to other wives whose husbands had been doing this for years... All the best to you both.... and may God bless you...
2006-12-15 05:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetserenity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
married life is great when both people give 100% to the relationship. my wife and I truley enjoy bein g with eachother and that helps alot. Forgiveness is key. If you have problems with something you must comunicate them in constructive ways. Holding a grudge for going out with the fellas and getting drunk will turn into a fight about the dishes when the dishes are not even close to the real problem
2006-12-15 04:38:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
artist always need inspirations... just broaden your patience (but don't tolerate too much bad vices). jealous women don't have place for a musicians heart... you got to "rock" to have that "roll" in your relationship. always be at his side. it's like a "package deal" ,he's not going anywhere without you (just like john&yoko)... good luck and best wishes
2006-12-15 04:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be great if you and your lover get along 24/7 all day everyday and if you know for sure that yall are going to argue yall can make up again.
2006-12-15 04:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was engaged once to a musician--in my early 20's--and THAT was bad enough! Extremely late hours,women who threw themselves at him JUST because he could play the guitar,etc.
2006-12-15 04:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Unstable
2006-12-15 04:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Married life was hell for me. Next one, he'll have to treat me like a queen. No rush.
2006-12-15 04:39:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it can be an living hell if you marry the wrong person but if you find a good one keep him
2006-12-15 04:37:16 · answer #10 · answered by tank h 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋