Okay, where to begin!! my boyfriend and I have been together for A year and a half and is has alot of gay tendencys from using lip smackers with sparkles, to body shimmer lotion which he says he uses because he ran out of his own, to having the sountrack to queer as folk season 3, his bestfriend admits he is straight but acts extremely gay and my boyfriend admitted that when he stays the night with him they sleep in the same bed.(what the fu*k), He was alone with my bestfriends boyfriend and out of no where asks him " have you seen brokeback mountain? and he said no, an my
boyfriend said " its a reaaally good movie". There is a gay guy that works at blockbuster and everytime I go in there with my boyfrend he give my boyfriend special treatment and flirts and says things like
" Im mad at you" it makes me really uncomfortable, He constantly brings up things too like " i saw two gay guys walking down the street today" , " how can u be gay and not know it?"
when i ask him he saysno
2006-12-15 04:25:13 · 14 answers · asked by KV 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Perhaps he is not ready to come out yet. Or perhaps he's not gay, just feminine at times.
Either way, you already asked, and he gave you his answer. Until he's ready to change that answer, you should assume that he is straight.
2006-12-15 04:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you propose, 'take care of this counsel'? this is fairly no longer a tricky theory. So he likes both genders. Are you going to be in ponder whether he says he likes chocolate AND vanilla? I really do not imagine so. If he loves you, the very undeniable truth that he's bisexual ought to no longer remember. Why would you want to 'take care of' any counsel if he became bisexual or without delay? Are you frightened he's gonna like a guy more desirable than you? if it is the case, why are not you only as frightened about him liking yet another female more desirable than you?
2016-10-18 08:09:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL!! Okay this isn't a funny issue to u im sure, but LOL. He uses sparkly lip smackers?!! I dont even use that crap and im a woman! Sweetie he is more than bi. Bi is basically 50/50 right down the middle. He's more like 80/20. 80% gay, 20% trying to be straight. Dont be surprised if u two break up and a yr later u hear of him being in a gay pride parade float.
2006-12-15 04:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to stop judging him and being suspicious. Maybe he is gay, maybe not. Many people deny it for years out of fear of how others will react, religious reasons, and just because they are scared. If you have been together that long then you have to be good friends. If he is gay, you need to be a good friend and support him, if you tell him that it's ok and he still says no, believe him.
2006-12-15 04:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he gets high when gay men flirt with him so he grooms himself to appear gay when he's not.
Could happen. Maybe.
Otherwise... COME ON. Too suspicious. He might be parsing words and thinking gay is not bisexual. Ask him directly if he's bisexual next time or if he's attracted to men.
2006-12-15 04:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by BiyGuy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just ultra-comfy in his own skin, and using "girly" body products doesn't bother him. A few of my guy friends have these uber-feminine tendencies, but they're all straight as arrows.
Maybe he's just pushing the envelope a little, to see how far he can take it.
Does it make girls lesbians for acting the same way?
2006-12-15 04:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I denied it for years. I was married for 14 years and have 4 incredible kids, but all along, I was denying myself my true identity. It's much easier to say "no" simply because of our society. If he is and finally has the nerve to admit it, then the two of you have a great chance to be great friends, if he's not, then the two of you can have it all!
2006-12-15 04:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by pocket68rocket 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say you need to go back to talking more. Really have a nice long talk with him...that is the only way for both of you to feel better. He sounds gay but I coud sit here and describe PARTS of my life to you and make myself SOUND straight. ANd I could describe PARTS of my husband and he would sound REALLY STRAIGHT - but we are both gay.
2006-12-15 07:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I hate to tell you this,but your b/f is extrmely gay especially if he's sleeping in the same bed with his guy friend. You know what they are doing right? He's straight gay and that's it.
2006-12-15 05:18:30 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this but he's not bisexual - HE'S GAY!!! If these things you are saying are true then he is full on homosexual.
2006-12-15 04:46:22 · answer #10 · answered by Next evolutionary step... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋