What do you think a real man/husband is? Explain
2006-12-15 04:25:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A real man/husband is and should be our protector and our hero who would defend our Honor and our life if anyone talks ill about us or tries to hurt us. I would definitely admire a man like that.
I wonder are there any men fitting this description out there?
2006-12-15 06:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by art_girlt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good husband is strong minded , kind and thought full, yet is not bullied by his girlfriend or wife. A woman will cheat on a man that is weak and gets bullied by her. So be strong but kind and thoughtful, and expect the same in return. Never try to buy a woman for at the end you will end up with ugliness
2006-12-15 12:50:06 · answer #2 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a real man first of all is able to show his emotions. None of that crap about not being able to talk about feelings. Even if it means he has to cry now and then or open up to people close to him. A real man stands up to his responsibilities, takes care of his kids, partner or parents if needed and always tries to be there for his family and makes plans for his future. A real man knows when his woman needs a little space and is secure enough to let her have a life outside of his of his circle.
A real man knows that abusing a woman in any form does not give him power, and he also knows that a good woman beside him needs to be treasured. A real man can miss the game with friends to take his waoman to their anniversary dinner and take it in stride. A real man tries to be a good friend to other males but maintains a balance with his family, and tries to be be honest and loyal.
A real man knows that no means no. A real man knows when to stop, when to walk away when to say I'm sorry and he has the guts to do it if needed. A real man knows the universe does not surround him he's just a tiny part of it and tries to be good to nature including animals. A real man has ambition and drive, he not only values money and material things but time spent with his woman(or man), kids, or personal development.
A real man is man enough to ask for help. Man enough to recognise every one needs someone else at some point. Man enough to stick with all his commitments to the end even when the going gets tough. Man enough to care about his partner's sexual pleasure (not just his),
man enough to say I love you only when he means it.
A real man.......................
I think i better stop.
2006-12-15 12:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by ayanagin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some one who is kind, supportive, loving. Even when you are at your worst. Can make you smile. Gives you a hug for no reason. Supports you and your family with money and love. Doesn't mind helping out with the kids, cooking and cleaning. Shares the job of raising the kids. Shares his feelings and love. Loves you above everyone else. Puts your needs ahead of his own. Just like you would as his wife. The golden rule ables do unto others as you would have them do unto yourself. The bottom line for a good husband.
2006-12-15 15:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real man/husband worships the ground his wife walks on, would slay dragons for her, doesn't even notice other women exist, and meets all of her emotional & practical needs. He would never cheat, never lie, or put anything before her. Too bad they're like unicorns - just a myth.!!!
2006-12-15 12:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emmit Eugene! Are you questioning yourself as a man/husband?
I'll tell you from first hand experience with well...you. Letting her know that you love her and want her to grow and be strong. Working to provide a life that gives you both a chance for a happier future. Loving yourself first and foremost so that you can love her. Supporting your wife's dreams, encouraging her to improve her life, helping around the house, taking her on vacations, saving money, not spending all of your time playing and sleeping with your sony playstation, making love to her comfortably not as if you are unsure of pleasing her, getting to know her, not expecting her to sit by and watch you give up on life. NEVER GIVING UP ON LIFE! These things all make for a real man/husband.
But for you, I know the answer you need. A real man is one who can identify himself in God and Spirit and does not need clarification to know he is an extension of Heavenly Love to his Wife. A man who commits his actions and thoughts of her to being the arms and heart God is using to bring her closer to Him. A man who realizes his wife may be strong but she needs her husband to help lift the burdens of life. This, is who you are already but if you're in question the way to be this is simply to do it. Think over all you do with and for her and think about whether or not your actions say I love you even if it is tough love. You are a wonderful man/husband but I always thought you needed to realize you were stronger than you thought you were.
2006-12-15 13:29:47 · answer #6 · answered by Love to Love 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be simple A real man is...
#1 Faithful hates lies.
Hard working
takes care of himself as his family...ETC common sence stuff.
2006-12-15 13:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think a real man is like a guy that really cares about you and trusts you no matter what!
2006-12-15 12:35:22 · answer #8 · answered by kingswire27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love, Passionate, understanding.
2006-12-15 12:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by JAG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone whom is your best friend confident,lover, and one you can say anything to without prejudice all in one person.
2006-12-15 12:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by PAULINA S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋