well we just moved a new house and its really new and now we live closer to our boyfriends. me and my sister have boyfriends who are best friends. well we spend most of our time there. we get home and stay for about an hour and leave come home for dinner and leave and come home around 9 or 10. my dad gets mad but he doesnt let boys in our house when he is gone which is alot and there is no computer, cable or anything. its boring and he exspects us to love being home when were teens. what do i do?
2006-12-15 04:20:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
get a job...to help the house become what you want...spoled girl! there is something more than tv and computers and fun stuff provided by your parents..what about some respect.
2006-12-15 04:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by meninne3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ack tell you dad to get a computer and cable and all that good stuff! Plus dont do anything you may regret. My friends dad said she wasnt allowed to have boys over and crap and she still did so anyways her dad kicked her out and she had no where to go but to move into her boyfriends house where she lived for awhile and the boyfriend was a drunk and she was going to leave him and he punches her in the face gets a black eye then he starts kicking her in the stomach and then throws her out of the house and he calls her from time to time wanting her back but she has a new and better boyfriend now...and she moved in with her sister got introuble for having the boyfriend over got kicked out...then moved back in with dad...got kicked out for having the boyfriend and she is pretty much homeless at the moment...so becareful...
2006-12-15 04:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's really hard. I think your Dad needs to come to the terms that if he wants you to stay and want to be there then he is going to have to make it more relaxed. Maybe the no boy rule could be lifted as long as your Mom or Dad are there it should be o.k, Boredom is a hard emotion to tame, especially having you're boyfriends so close. If he is allowing you to go over their house and hang out, why cant they come to your house...doesn't he realize that it is safer for him to have you in his site...I have 4 daughters. I allow them to hang out with their bf's at my house. It works for all of us,
2006-12-15 05:14:28 · answer #3 · answered by skipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read some books, study, and yes he should get you some cable if you do not have access to telivision without cable. And you should not be spending all of your waking hours hanging out with the boys. Find some girlfriends to hang out with. I dont blame your father for being upset. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-15 04:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When your dad is home you could stay home for a few hours and just talk or watch movies together. You'll be home more and maybe you'll learn something about your dad.
2006-12-15 04:28:22 · answer #5 · answered by sony_0025 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should try to stay home some days and spend time with your boyfriends on some days, maybe try talking to you dad about the situation.
2006-12-15 04:28:28 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Q 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, i dont want to be home either, im 17 and figuring out away of how i can just pack my things and leave, i heard that around that age you are considered and adult so you can leave, and if they call the police thay cant really tell you nothing. its your choice, but only if your 17,.....and it shouldnt be wrong of not wanting to be home.....i personally want to leave....
hope this helps....
2006-12-15 04:46:11 · answer #7 · answered by JUSTAGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your dad, tell him he can trust you and your sister, and you guy's won't do anything wrong, if that doesn't work just keep going over the boy's house's.
2006-12-15 04:29:59 · answer #8 · answered by twiggy_vienna_love 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't have unprotected sex.
2006-12-15 04:24:25 · answer #9 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋