my friend is very emotional when something little happenes she gets very mad, but it is understandable becasue she is a cancer survivor, but im in school rite now and she hates me because last period she tore up these little papers and threw them at me and was just playin around i told her to stop but we were laughin about it so it wasnt rly a big deal (but i was getting really annoyed!) so next she starded writing garbage in my notebook and i was just playin but gettin annoyed so i grabbed the pen out of her hand and went to put it down and i dont know what i did but it slammed on the ground and broke, no way to fix it!! ( this is a big deal because its her favorite pen that is a pen pencil stylus combo thing and she allways uses it, i said omg im sorry i didnt mean it but she was so mad i picked up the pieces and didnt kno what to do then she called me a *****( and NEVERswears)she started crying and got a pissed and stomped out when the bell rang! she hates and i dont kno what 2 do!!
2006-12-15 04:19:44 · 4 answers · asked by jessiesgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she's a true friend she'll understand. Give her space now though, let her cool off. THEN I'd say approach her, apologize, and offer to buy her a new pen/pencil thingy. After you do that, if you can tell that she's open to having a conversation with you and talking, then I'd sit her down and just let the both of you vent and get things off of your chests. Do it in person, not on the phone, on email, or thru texts. Get everything out there, explain how she's been kinda getting on your nerves a bit lately, and then hug and move on. Being honest and making this effort is huge, and mayb emore than anything what the two of you need right now is just a little space! Good luck dear!
2006-12-15 05:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by Elsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a new pen/pencil stylus combo thing, wrap it up and tell her you are sorry. Make it a grand effort, buy one of those tiny chocolate (or whatever her favorite flavor is) cake and have them write Sorry on it.
It was an accident, but she is obviously stressed out, your gesture would cement your friendship.
If you no longer want to have the relationship, you could just hand her a new pen and say sorry and walk away.
Either way, you broke the pen, you should replace it.
Good Luck
2006-12-15 04:33:36 · answer #2 · answered by dani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her your sorry and buy her one just like it.
Then you need to tell her that maybe it is best if you both don't joke that heavy with each other. Tell her you rather keep the jokes less intense. Then tell her that your sorry for breaking her pen even though it was an accident that you will not joke with her like that anymore and ask her what she thinks and if she is okay with that.
2006-12-15 05:50:59 · answer #3 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know her phone # call her and ask if she'll forgive you. that's what i do. pray about it and she'll get back with you eventually.
2006-12-15 10:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by squidgetpj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋