I've been married for almost a year and a half, and have a six month old daughter. My husband is my first and only serious relationship.
Sometimes I wonder if I made a decision too soon. Do you ever know if you're with the person you're supposed to spend the rest of your life with? Or will you always wonder every now and then?
2006-12-15 04:17:07 · 4 answers · asked by Person 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You and your husband should sit down together and read in the Bible, I Corinthians 13 "The Love Chapter". It will get you both started into knowing what true love is and isn't, as well as help you start to develop it. When you get it, you will see that you made the right decision and your love will last your lifetimes.
By the way, everyone at one time or another wonders if they made the right choice. My wife and I have been married for over 28 years and there have been some times we wondered. Yet, when we practiced love being patient and kind and not seeking its own way at the expense of others, we knew what the answer was. Our love has grown to such that both of us would give our life to save the life of the other.
Yes, maybe you had your baby too soon, but that isn't something to worry about now. Enjoy your child while you can because children grow up faster than you will realize and then are gone.
I suggest that you find a Bible believing church to attend and find a young couples group there. Having fellowship with them will give you encouragement and show you that you can and will make it together.
2006-12-15 04:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're obviously not happy. You need to tell your husband you're not happy and do something about it. It's hard to say if it was "too soon" because we don't know how old you are. If you are 30 and this was you're first serious relationship and child - I would say no. But if you're 22 - yeah - probably. The best thing you can do is to workon this relationship to get it to the point where you don't wonder if you made the right move. Good luck to you!
2006-12-15 12:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one knows if your supposed to be with the same person your whole life. but you two do hae a kid together.no you didnt do it to early, you probably have a good husband and a beautiful baby
2006-12-15 12:34:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope i wonder about it too. It is normal and believe me dont let people tell you otherwise, its like one of those shocking revelations that people act as if its taboo to talk about.
2006-12-15 12:30:56 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋