i like the way they talk, walk, and act.
2006-12-15 04:12:42 · 13 answers · asked by WANDA T 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Many women find themselves attracted to gay men and for various reasons. One is they feel little, usually no sexual pressure from them. Another is that many gay men are somewhat more in touch with their feminine side and therefore can more easily understand how they feel. There are many more reasons including just pure attraction to actions and traits.
However anything beyond plutonic relationships, really don't owrk because gay men are sexually attracted to other men,, as they should be and you would expect. I like seeing happy people together in relationships regardless of their gender.
there are many bi-sexual men who exhibit more emotion and more outward feminiine actions as well. Of cousre here, you might have to tolerate that this person would sometime feel the need to be with other men too.
Finally, if you look, you can meet men who are straight men who like some of the more feminine pursuits and even exhibit the feminine physical habits you elude to.
This is your best chance for a long term monogomous relationship, if that is also what you seek.
There are many of us like that. Some experimented the other way at one time, others not. Just as not all gay men exhibit so called feminine traits, not all straight men are neccessarily hunter/gatherer types.
I, for instance, have many feminine interests, like cooking, etc and I take a long time getting ready, I love shoes, bright colored socks and clothes, fashionable clothes, lots of jewelry and bracelets, being involved in theatre, and much more. I also like yard work and some other more "masculine pursuits", like women for one. I am not concerned with being masculine and I walk and talk with more than just slightly efeminate manners. Even more so when I get excited about something.
My wife is feminine, though not a girly girl, and she likes feminine things, but doesn't mind doing yards work with me or for me if I am under the weather. She, obviously is attracted to fem characteristics in men too. We are married nearly 25 years, happily. We know other couples who are more traditional and others more like us, some even where the roles are almost reversed. It's ahrd to put people in a box.
I like to sleep in drawstring sleeping pants and recently I bought some from the women's department because they had the University logo of my school and I liked both the style and color better. I think men are more comfortable doing things like that. now. My wife has bought other things like for me or for us to have matching sleepwear, etc at times, just like she sometimes wear mens things, which most girls do.
I give those examples to illustrate, how you can find a person with traits you like, but who is still excited by you because you are a woman. Seek and Ye shall find.
OBTW, it is a relief for men like myself to know not all women seek the marlboro man, and I hope it is for you knowing that not all men feel they need to be inherently masculine about all things.
I hope this helps you!
2006-12-15 05:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by rumbler_12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut. You already know the answer to this problem. While, yes, a polyamorous relationship (involving more that two people) work for some you are already questioning the success of it. You could always take a chance at it, but that decision would have to be yours, not that of the yahoo answer community because only you know how it will effect your emotions if it does or doesn't work. Having intercourse with someone does rise emotions in a person so until you're sure of your choice the best thing to do would be to hold off any physical romance. Best of luck to you <3
2016-05-24 20:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to love a gay man, he is human too. I have a gay male friend and he loves to shop, he is an excellent dresser. He loves to get pampered just like I do, and its cool. By the way my friend is also an excellent dancer! Its fine to have gay men as friends, just remember this do not fall in love, because majority of gay guys are really cute and they are not interested in you.
2006-12-15 04:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Totally! I love them, too.
The only thing you can't do is expect them to fall in love with you, or be sexually interested in you . . . a lot of straight girls fall into that trap.
Other than that, enjoy being a f*g hag!
2006-12-15 07:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My very best friend is a woman - we hve been friends since 1995.
2006-12-15 04:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
OF COURSE THAT'S FINE:MY BEST FRIENDS ARE ALL GIRLS.
AND WE AREN'T AS BORING AS STRAIGHT GUYS:FOOTBALL,THE CAR ETC:IT SEEMS THEY ARE GLUED TO THE COUCH ETC.
US GAY GUYS ARE WAY MORE ALIVE
SO GET YOURSELF ONE OR TWO GAY FRIENDS,HON.
MERRY X-MAS TO YOU.XXXX
2006-12-15 04:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, as long as you realize it will never lead to romatic relationship. No matter how much you love someone, you can't change him to fit your needs.
2006-12-15 04:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by imaginary friend 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I always considered extremely flaming men to be obnoxious and annoying. They give me a headache after 20 minutes.
I prefer hanging out with bi or metrosexual type of gay men. Or even gay men who act straight.
2006-12-15 04:22:24 · answer #8 · answered by BiyGuy 2 · 1⤊ 5⤋
not all gay men act alike... trust me
2006-12-15 04:23:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yea its great. Keep being openminded.
2006-12-15 04:25:37 · answer #10 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋