please help me.He lives to far away.I'm going to marry him in 2 years and I never get to see him.Now we are a perfect match and even if I don't get to see him I'll still love him.But it's so painful to think about.What can I do??
2006-12-15 04:11:36 · 18 answers · asked by Dannylvr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok here's some more detailes.I'm going to marry him in 2 years and I did know him for a year before he moved away.Now I'll probably get to see him sometime in august of 2007 and then again around christmas and we will be together after we get amrried but I just miss him so much it's driving me crazy.I need to see him and I can't can someone please help me?
2006-12-15 07:19:43 · update #1
did you get to see him before he or you moved far away? if not, i dont think you are ready to make a decision to marry or not. if you did have a relationship with him while you two lived close, then there is a chance,,,,, but you still need to live /be near each other, before you marry,,,,, as years are a long time, if your young you both might of changed,,,,,, if you love him, yes its hard, but stay in touch, and recognize that nowdays, with emails and messengers and voice mail etc, its so much easier, though still hard, then couples had it in the past
2006-12-15 04:16:00 · answer #1 · answered by dlin333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you don't get to see the man, how can you determine that you two are a perfect match especially if you don't spend any time together. And marriage will not make it better. It doesn't matter how perfect you are there will be some things that will get on your nerves about him and you need to find them out before you marry him.
2006-12-15 12:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ned to think about getting to be closer to see how each other really are and not just how the other is over the phone or the net. Then these feelings may change. But then maybe they won't. Just get to know each other in person for a bit first.
2006-12-15 12:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be a perfect match if you don't even know how his breath smells like? How can you be husband and wife and be apart?
You are in love with an idea and some megabites from a computer.
Get a life for heaven's sake.
2006-12-15 12:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're going to get married in two years, why don't ive together already? you two are far apart but you seem to be serious about getting married so suggest moving in together. either you with him or him with you. if that doesn't work, you might not be such a perfect match afterall.
2006-12-15 12:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot can happen in 2 yrs. Why can't you or him move closer to each other? Absence makes the heart grow fonder but this is rediculous..
2006-12-15 12:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by dimples121 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully when you get married you will see this person. This is a hard one not enough info. but however. Just follow your heart. no matter how far it is away. best of wishes and merry christmas
2006-12-15 12:14:58 · answer #7 · answered by stunt101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to see him once you get married? If not then there is no point in marrying him.
2006-12-15 12:13:11 · answer #8 · answered by kms010494 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever seen him face to face? How do you know, if you two never see each other, if he doesn't cheat? How in hell could you get married without seeing each other?
2006-12-15 12:13:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him so you could meet him somewere and see him in 2 years you have enoght time...anyway you have to see him before you get married
2006-12-15 12:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by ella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋