how do it feel for the frist time dose it hurt or'what if it hurt how long will it hurt tell me something before I go out and make I mistake that I will sooner regret.I wanna lose my V-card to my boyfriend that I really love alot!!
2006-12-15 04:09:04 · 12 answers · asked by Sexi Azz 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I would have to say noooooooooooooo!!
2006-12-15 09:24:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like you regret it even before you lose your virginity. To me that says that you ARE NOT ready. You may love this guy alot like you say but that does not mean you are ready for sex. Give yourself a break and keep your virginity. Once you lose it you can't change your mind and get it back, its gone forever. The first time should be with someone you love and feel no pressure from at all. It should be at a time that you are so comfortable that you are not afraid. It should be when you are BOTH mentally and physically ready for ALL the consequences of a sexual act. Think hard before you consider this farther.
2006-12-15 04:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're having ANY 2nd thoughts now, you will definitely regret it later. You need to really think long and hard on this one. I'm not saying "save" yourself for marriage or anything like that, but really do some soul-searching before you commit to this.
Are you ready and able to support a child? Are you emotionally ready to handle the prospect of your BF eventually leaving (most 1st timers don't last...sorry to say)? Are you prepared for any sort of craziness that may or may not be covered here? If you aren't ready for the responsibility then keep your pants on.
2006-12-15 04:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you first? If your an adult you need to know that you are about to make a decision that is going to change the rest of your life. There are not so many virgins out there, if I were you I would wait until he at least proposed to you or until your married. Don't be dumb and give yourself to someone who could possibly hurt hurt you. And yes it does hurt. It feels like you just ran marathon w/o stretching out
2006-12-15 04:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Glad you are thinking about it before you do it and then regret it later. Not sure how old you are but if you are under 18....I wouldn't have sex. Until you can take financial responsibility for a child (and even if you use protection you can still get pregnant) you should not be sexually active. No matter how much you think you love this guy. And just to let you know...it's the oldest line in the book---a guy telling you how much he loves you just to get you in bed. Then he'll be like---"Who are you?"
Also having sex before 18...everyone will call you a sl**. No matter what they say to your face.
2006-12-15 04:15:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you should not be thinking about how it feels the first time. You should be absolutely positive that this is the right guy for you to lose your virginity to and that it is the right time in your life. I am sorry but when I lost mine I didn't care if it hurt or not. I knew that I loved this guy and that he loved me. That is all that matters. But to answer your question it will hurt.
2006-12-15 04:24:31 · answer #6 · answered by Mimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does kinda hurt. My best suggestion for you (even though you probably won't listen) would be to wait until marriage to have sex. It will be more special and worth it. If you have sex with your current BF, things might change between you two. True love waits. I know we live in a "just do it" sex-crazed society and I know it's hard to wait, but be strong and your BF should respect you for that. I was waiting until marriage until one day I was with my BF in his room and things happend. I wish I could go back in time:( I hope I was a good help and got you to think about it, but it's your choice. God will be so proud if you make the right one!
2006-12-15 04:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by digitalgirl0607 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's different for everyone. For me, it stung and burned, but not bad. However, it took me awhile to actually like it. I didn't get it at first! But, whatever you decide, protect yourself.
2006-12-15 05:24:06 · answer #8 · answered by dandlvegas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't even spell or talk right so why you thinking about having sex.When you need to be thinking about learning how to spell.
2006-12-15 04:44:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it HURTs a bit after that,it is fun alway through.but keep it, till you are married.It is worth it.Baby
2006-12-15 04:59:47 · answer #10 · answered by king f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋