say you go to a reataraunt 3 times. 2 times were excellent. the 3rd was not so good they mess up your order.. u will forget about the 2 good times but always remember the time they messed up? why is that?its true with everything i think
2006-12-15 04:08:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
bad stays in the mind longer and people hold grudges better then they forgive
2006-12-15 04:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It maybe because you were treated so well the first two times that come to expect it to always be like that. When the bad thing happens you become disappointed. It is a shame, an off night is bound to happen.
2006-12-15 04:20:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually bad things come with consequences or punishments... So, you automatically "remember" those times when you either didnt do the "right thing" or something wasnt done to you, the "right way" and you were either the recipient of punishment or you were the "giver" of the punishment...
Either way, you will generally remember the bad things because you were unhappy and probably unkind also...
I wish you well...
Jesse
2006-12-15 04:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some "human beings" concentration on beneficial issues others on adverse. you need to objective doing extra good issues each and all of the time yet at last this would tutor tiresome. locate somebody who makes you sense good approximately your self. life is in simple terms too short, create new enpowering memories which you the two sense good approximately
2016-10-15 00:17:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you're right. Sometimes a restaurant or anything or anybody can have an off day.
2006-12-15 04:12:39 · answer #5 · answered by Marenight 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because bad things are more effective..
2006-12-15 04:12:59 · answer #6 · answered by Irmak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's the worst thing that happened in their life, that's why makes them to remember it.
2006-12-15 04:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's human nature...yes, with most everything.....
2006-12-15 04:10:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are hard to forget
2006-12-15 04:11:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
IDK ... I used to be a waiter and never remember this happening to me ... but, have seen it happen to other servers
2006-12-15 04:14:18 · answer #10 · answered by Gummi Bear Devourer II 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋