guys only! what attracts you to a bigger girl? how do we find men who like us?

Answer 1

Nothing. . .sorry. Be less concerned about landing a man and more concerned about taking care of your body. I'm not being demeaning, simply speaking from personal experience. I was tired of being the fat guy and although I had lots of friends, had limited dating opportunities. I started to take better care of myself and 67 pounds later, my options are limitless.

Answer 2

Honestly, working with you, getting to know you, because when you first look at someone, your either attracted to them or not. some guysare into bigger women. thats fine, but the fact of the matter is that when a guy looks at you, you can, having all the make up in the world will not make him like you. although we would all love to live in a perfect world, people are shallow, not for a self shallow reason, but guys are attracted to thinner women. its just natural, my girlfriend has been getting a little chunky but i stil love her. i suggest you try, honestly try to lose a little bit of weight. the truth whether you can handle it or not is that once you loose weight,I GUARENTEE you will have a new found confidence to go outside wearing smaller clothes and holler at anybody, you wont have to, guys will holler at you. i used to wiegh a lot, i lost wieght and guess what, i found a girlfriend, i didnt look so down on my self and was proud that i had lost weight. sweety willpower comes from the heart, will power is learning how to say NO! good luck and i hope you find love.

Answer 3

Honestly, my idea of a "bigger girl" is a very tall girl or a girl who's 25 lbs over weight... NOT 250 lbs over weight, so by that definition exactly the same things that attract me to an average girl.

I'm lean and healthy. I expect my mate to be in similar condition.

Answer 4

I know you only wanted guys to answer your question but none of them did. If they are not attracted to bigger women why even answer the question? For 2 points? And some of these guys answered your question with take care of your health. They are wrong in assuming that just because you are heavier that you sit down and eat lots of food and junk.

Believe me...There are men out there that love big women, especially in the south where I live. Especially black men. Just put some makeup on, put on your best dress and I bet you'll hook him!

Answer 5

I think you set yourself up for this one. Sorry - I'm not a guy, but I just couldn't pass up your question.

Actually, I believe if you're thinking along the lines of how to find men who are attracted to bigger girls, you're spending too much time thinking about it. I would just concentrate on making myself a better person and not worry about how to find a man who will like you.

It depends, of course, on how "big" you are, but you will find that, as you age, your body will tolerate excess weight less and less. The more overweight you are, the less your body will tolerate it. And, trust me, the years go by very, very quickly. Think about it - when was the last time you saw a very overweight, very old person? I certainly can't remember the last time I did. That's because very overweight people die from weight-related conditions long before they REACH old age.

Sorry, I didn't mean to get preachy, it's just that, so much of the time, we reach for answers outside of ourselves (finding that man?) rather than just work on ourselves.

Answer 6

Whenu say bigger...do u mean Thick or sloppy? Thick is very VERY sexy. Thick in the thighs, hips & a.ss...mmmm. I LOVE that and im a female! I cant stand no skinny a.ss chicks. But sloppy fat is another thing. If u have 8 rolls boilin over, thats not physically attractive. Yes, she may have a beautiful personality but that doesnt make her cute! But thick & curvy gets TWO thumbs up.

Answer 7

If the girl has a killer smile and knows how to make herself look good in her body type then it’s all good. I have been very attracted to "bigger girls" if they keep themselves looking nice. Don't try to cram yourself into the jeans that don't fit, it makes you look worse. Personality and confidence are also a big part. If a girl has confidence it shows.

Answer 8

i know i'm a girl but all these guys are being stupid assholes when there are realistic answers to your question. But what do you mean by big? Like voluptous big or fat big? There are plenty of men who go for the voluptuous type and if you're fat in my experience the stick-figure guys go for the real big girls.

Answer 9

Hmm...Cute face, the big booty, of course and warm friendly personality. She can't be too heavy (dripping skin fat...YUCK!). She's gotta make sure she stays at a weight that doesn't turn her into a freak show.

Answer 10

I have always been fond of big women, can't explain it but they turn me on. Maybe you are not looking in the right places. I am interested if you are? Big women can make better lovers.