I think anyone who is planing marriage or either good, long relationship, should first learn to live together, find out if they are competieable. I meen dating or living under/near parents is bubble gum thing.
I don't meen neccessarly sexually, sex is easy, but living together 24/7 is the hardest part.
Wonder what other people think about it?
2006-12-15 03:43:30 · 16 answers · asked by Jola 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dear people, I am not talking about SEX here, but learning to live. As we know right now majority people do not know how to live.
Self worth or not being selfish? you got to be kidding, look around the world. Everyone is screaming for their entitlement.
2006-12-15 04:20:41 · update #1
In addition, in USA there is over 60% divorce rate.
2006-12-15 04:24:09 · update #2
You never really know someone untill you live with them
2006-12-15 03:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. That's part of being married- Learning to live with the other person. If you know you are compatible with the other person, then what's the point of getting married. You have nothing left to prove. Marriage is for the benefit giving to the other person. When people are "compatible" is suggest there are no flaws in the relationship. meaning there is no room for the relationship to improve or get better nor will the individual be improved. it becomes pointless.
2006-12-15 03:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a good hard look around Jola. Despite what you suggest it doesn't appear that this works either.
What it boils down to is the first sign of hard trouble...and I don't mean "marriage ending" trouble....couples make little attempt to communicate with each other or when doing so cannot do it properly. So...it's easier to just give up. Hence the end of the relationship. people have become quitters and don't want to put forth the effort to make their relationship work.
2006-12-15 04:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jola I have to agree with you 100%. Dating a person is one thing even if for a long period of time. You may find out that they are messy or a lot of their lifestyle prior to marriage by going together. But the real test is when you cohabitant together and then you see the real person and after a while may decide that they are not truly who you thought they were.
2006-12-15 03:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is the biggest reasons for Divorce, everyone wants a try it before buy it trial. Live your life with some dignity and morals. Gosh.. it's about learning together as a whole. "Go Figure!" (Just a thought, as you mentioned!!)
2006-12-15 03:51:39 · answer #5 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lived with my husband 13 yrs. before I would marry him and I agree living together IS the hardest part of being married.
2006-12-15 03:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by rcdc_wva. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with u! U never know the true person until u live with them!! Alot of my friends did the same! They talked about getting married than they got a place together and all hell broke loose! Now alot of them wont get married to that person! Its funny how that works huh!
2006-12-15 03:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by smile114 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I truly believe that people should try living together first before getting married. Work as much out as possible first.
2006-12-15 03:46:04 · answer #8 · answered by Joey R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree.
My hubby and I lived together for 1 yr prior to getting married. Have now been married 21 yrs.
2006-12-15 03:48:16 · answer #9 · answered by sawftandtender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it extremely is not specially forbidden, even though it does not be beneficial the two. whether you does not plan on having intercourse, you would be subjecting yourselves to a great variety of temptation. Plus, interior the Bible it says to "stay away from the visual charm of evil" and regrettably, human beings recently assume which you're having intercourse in case you reside together.
2016-12-30 11:37:36 · answer #10 · answered by ludwig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not live with him before marriage. If you guys are going to make it work, then why test waters first???
2006-12-15 03:57:25 · answer #11 · answered by Susan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋