i tried to forget him but I can't coz I meet him everyday. He's my colleague. We never say our feelings out right to each other but he often shows his fondness indirectly. I'm in terrible situation coz i'm married too...help!!!
2006-12-15 03:37:41 · 6 answers · asked by wolphy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Enjoy the moment i am married too but a female at my work is infatuated with me and i her as well .I guess your situation might change depending on how far you let it go. If it is Innocent and you still find pleasure in the company of the other its ok but if it grows into something more you might think about change to keep things honest
2006-12-15 03:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is completely wrong for the both of you because this isn't love, but lust. There is a big difference between the two. Read in the Bible, I Corinthians 13 "The Love Chapter" where it tells you what true love really is and isn't. Love is patient and kind and doesn't seek its own way at the expense of others. Adultery is anyone who is married having sexual relations with someone to whom they are not married. This is sin and can cause you to be sent to Hell by Christ on the final Judgment Day. Besides that, what about the vows you made on your wedding day?? Are they meaningless and you want to trample down your spouse with a dirty divorce?? Snap out of it. Your husband deserves better than this is going to turn out if you continue to carry on with this other guy. Change jobs if you can't control yourself. If you don't, the end will not turn out pretty.
2006-12-15 11:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about trying couple counseling with your husband? It may help you put things into perspective. Besides, some people are naturally kind, and you may be misreading his intentions.
So.. you may want to make sure how you feel towards your husband first of all.
2006-12-15 12:30:38 · answer #3 · answered by o302 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is married he will love another women when he marry u and if u married u will love another man when u marry him becuz both of u is cheater
2006-12-15 11:54:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with being FWB ,just keep it low key and enjoy what you can
2006-12-15 11:47:09 · answer #5 · answered by rm081957 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least ya'll can be friends with benifits.
2006-12-15 11:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by Smiley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋