to their email or voicemail. If so why? If not why not? I personally don't think so because everyone needs a certain degree of privacy whether they are hiding something or not. Does anyone demand having those passwords?
2006-12-15 03:35:46 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree w/ you....privacy whether or not you are doing anything wrong is imperative. We all need our privacy, as we are individuals. I certainly wouldn't want a silly benign email from one of my girls friends to be misinterpreted by my man and he question the hell out of me or accuse me or her of any wrong doing. Could lead to alot of hurt feelings. Who needs or wants that kind of aggravation in their lives?
2006-12-15 03:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've never demanded a password, nor has he but we do know each others. Since we share all aspects of life together is just works out that way. Sometimes if I'm on the computer he'll ask me to check his email or I'll do the same. We're not very imaginative on passwords so we pretty much know each others usual lineup. I never go behind my husband's back to check his email because I know he has nothing to hide but I feel comforted that he has my password in case something ever happened to me. He would need access to my email for vital information, whether it be financial or just contacting family members.
2006-12-15 11:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by CA DIVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that a persons spouse should have passwords and what not. There is a part of privacy that people need even if you are married or what not. Its not that they are hiding things. Its just personal and the other spouse should not ask for them unless they believe the other is doing something wrong. But not ask for passwords. Just ask whats up.
2006-12-15 11:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by Believe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good question. My husband and I went through that when we first got married. He had a privacy thing and I wanted everything to be open. I didn't want to snoop looking for cheating, but I wanted to have an idea about what he was into and doing. I felt him being able to read my email told him things about me and vice versa. We rarely read each others email but we have each others passwords so we could if we wanted to. It made a statement to us that said we have no need for privacy from the person who holds the key to our heart. We are one not two separate people but one person in God as a husband and wife so there is no need to keep anything from the other ever.
2006-12-15 11:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by Love to Love 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I have been discussing this lately. She feels that I shouldnt have access to her emails and things, but she has sat there and kept guessing my password until she got into mine. I feel that there should be no reason to deny your spouse access to these things. If I knew I had access to them, I would never even bother to check them, b/c I feel that if access isnt being denied, then there probably isnt anything in there that she wants to hide. I leave my passwords and everything totally open to my wife.
2006-12-15 11:45:08 · answer #5 · answered by williamjohnwelch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have access 2 each others email and voice mail. This is bc we choose 2 do this. Some people choose not 2, but it has 2 b a mutual decision.
2006-12-15 12:31:49 · answer #6 · answered by E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
funny you ask this. i think if you guys love each other you should be open about everything. my husband and i got in a fight last night and i had to stay in a hotel. he locked me out of the house, long story but i don't have a key because we ALWAYS use the garage but he turned off the power to the garage so i can't get back in. while i was gone he changed the password to my OWN email account so I can't even check my own mail. I just created this account today. So, like i said if you love each other i don't see why you shouldn't share passwords but if you have a p-rick spouse keep your passwords to yourself..
2006-12-15 11:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by guess 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think the each spouse should offer the password to their mate but neither one should use it or actually take it. Offering it shows that you aren't hiding anything and not taking it shows trust! If I was with someone who was very private and made sure I didn't hear his voice mail etc...I would wonder what he was hiding, I'm sure he'd feel the same. Being open with each other works!
2006-12-15 11:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope. No for that, every one needs privacy. At the same level though, you shouldn't be trying to hide something. Trust goes both ways.
2006-12-15 11:43:28 · answer #9 · answered by Floss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even think of asking my boyfriend for his passwords. Everyone is entitled to their privacy. Also, getting their passwords shows that you don't trust them. And for any good relationship to survive, you need trust.
2006-12-15 11:41:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋