I Never had an orgasm...is it easier or harder to after you have a baby? I'm only 20 and I have heard woman someitmes don't orgasm till they are a little older. I have come close a bunch but never had the real thing. I don't want any disgusting answers
2006-12-15 03:34:12 · 9 answers · asked by volcomgrly23 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
all women are different and some will nevver have an orgasm where as some will always have one no matter what. Some women have an easier time when they are preggo but i have also heard of women who had a harder time when they are preggo. So if someone tells you that it is easier it probably was for them buut the next woman it may be harder. Sorry that there is no deffinate answer.
2006-12-15 03:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by b&g4me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 26 an i had never had an orgasm til 5 months ago. as the person who made me climax said sex is in the mind , but if your partner doesn't take the time to find out what pleases you then you will never have one , if he is a good caring and genuinely wants you to be satisfied he will take the time to satisfy. has nothing to do with age at all
2006-12-15 11:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy has to hit you in the right spot to make you orgasm, that might be why you haven't had one yet just get your guy to move around a little more in you good luck and have fun!!
2006-12-15 12:38:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the men are not hitting the right spot you will not orgasm, and it doesn't make any difference once you have had a baby.
2006-12-15 11:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by Weiners and Beans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl, sex is wonderful after you have a baby. Also easier to get pregnant once you have that first one, too. Maybe you should try other positions and just feel it and not try so hard to have one. Do you understand?
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2006-12-15 12:06:07 · answer #5 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, to be completely honest...I never had an orgasm until I realized that for me, I had to stimutate my clitoris while having sex. It's the ONLY way I can orgasm. Many women are like this. Try it, use lube though.
2006-12-15 11:46:35 · answer #6 · answered by boz4425 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it matters if you've had a baby or not. it is easier as you get older. talk to your man about what you like when he does it. not to be disgusting but for me the easiet and quickest way is oral.
2006-12-15 11:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by Maddie and Jacobs mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the book Orgasms by lou paget.
my husband and i got it on our honeymoon and he's loved learning how to please me! :)
also- there are a lot of books out there to teach you BOTH how to please one another.
remember the most important thing is to make love, not have sex-- focus on the emotion that really can be involved...
that book seriously has helped us so much-- women rarely orgasm unless their man understands their body.
2006-12-15 12:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by carcar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this may sound funny but try putting a pillow under your butt when you have sex, that will elevate you and might just hit your G-spot
2006-12-15 12:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by my2sweetangels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋