2006-12-15 03:33:55 · 11 answers · asked by zeizei 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'M NOT.....BUT I USED TO BE. THEN ONE DAY I REALIZED THAT THERE ARE MILLIONS OF WOMEN IN THIS WORLD THAT ARE PRETTIER, SLIMMER, FUNNIER, NICER, SMARTER, ETC. THAN I AM. AND NO MATTER HOW HARD I TRIED, I COULDN'T BE WHAT SOME OF THEM ARE. AND SO I MADE UP MY MIND THAT FROM THAT MOMENT ON, I WOULDN'T KEEP TRYING TO COMPETE. IF A MAN WANTS TO BE WITH ME THEN HE WILL BE WITH ME. AND IF HE DOESN'T, THEN I DIDN'T NEED HIM ANYWAY.
ONCE I DID THAT, I BECAME MUCH MORE CONFIDENT IN MYSELF. I AM MARRIED NOW AND I HAVE NEVER WORRIED ABOUT MY HUSBAND. (AND SOMETIMES THAT BOTHERS HIM.) THE WAY I LOOK AT IT, IF A MAN WANTS TO CHEAT, THERE'S NOTHING THAT YOU CAN DO TO STOP HIM. AND IF HE'S GOOD AT IT, THEN YOU'LL NEVER KNOW ANYWAY.
I TOLD MY HUSBAND WHEN WE FIRST COMMITTED TO EACH OTHER THAT IF HE WAS EVER OUT SOMEWHERE AND SAW SOMETHING THAT HE JUST "HAD TO HAVE", THEN BY ALL NATURAL MEANS, GET ALL YOU CAN STAND OF IT. WALLER AROUND IN IT. JUST DON'T LET ME FIND OUT.
WHAT I DON'T KNOW WON'T HURT ME.....BUT WORRYING NEEDLESSLY ABOUT WHAT I DON'T KNOW WILL!!!
2006-12-15 03:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by LIPPS 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I am a really jelous person but i try to control it. I can not see my guy talking to another girl that I don't know. I won't say anything at that time but as soon we are alone I will start asking questions and we get it to fights(well not every time if I belive him.)And the only way I deal with the green-eyed monster is by being by myself and you will problebly think this is stupid but i go shopping.
2006-12-15 11:39:59 · answer #2 · answered by Dulce O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea I'd say I'm the jealous sort but not to the extreme. I deal with it by joking about the matter....it lightens the mood plus you usually get a more positive response then if you question someone regarding whatever it is making you jealous.
2006-12-15 11:37:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
iam sooooo jealuos. I dont no why i guess b/c i have always ben hurt by men and lie to by friends. I try not to be but if your going to hide your phone call from me and hide about hanging out with someone if your just friends what do you want me to fell
2006-12-15 11:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes i am a very jealous person. But i deal with it by not thinking about it and everytime that i do i just think of something that makes me happy and it seems to work for me.
good luck
and merry christmas
2006-12-15 11:36:58 · answer #5 · answered by stunt101 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm actually not very jealous at all. I think it annoys my boyfriend. I just feel like jealousy breeds insecurity. He, on the other hand, is insanely jealous. I think it's funny. Sometimes it's annoying. :)
2006-12-15 11:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by Mimi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've found that building confidence and being secure with yourself makes a big difference.
Jealousy is a wasted emotion. It benefits no one.
2006-12-15 11:37:16 · answer #7 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being jealous is something that happens to everyone.
It all depends on how you deal with it.
2006-12-15 11:36:41 · answer #8 · answered by jojo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a cancer, and it is a built-in absence of trust. Avoid it like the plague.
2006-12-15 11:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes i am if I see my man with another girl oh i will beat the girl ***
write me booreeserye@yahoo.com
2006-12-15 11:36:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋