ive just had a baby girl-9weeks so im not happy with my body at the moment but my boyfriend always looks at other womens bums.i dont mind but he always does it when im with him.
2006-12-15 03:31:37 · 27 answers · asked by charlotte m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Fight fire with fire and start staring or commenting on men's bums - I'm sure he'll soon get the message! Don't let it damage your confidence!
2006-12-15 03:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by flyingconfused 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A shapely bum is usually below a pretty good looking girl so theirs the connection. It also goes back to pre historic times when man walked on all fours and sex was carried from the rear as a matter of course. So the women tried to make their rear ends attractive. African men put all there enjoyment into the women's rears and the bigger it is the more attractive the woman is thought to be. Now man walks upright he has a choice of places to look. The face, the breasts and the lower belly. Different places please different men and I have my choice. So don't be to hard on him it is his primeval instincts coming through.
Also when he stops looking it means he may have something to hide. You may not feel in the mood at the moment but remember he hasn't given birth and you might be able to give him some pleasure.
Happy Christmas.
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2006-12-15 03:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TWO CAN PLAY THAT GAME HONEY,,,, just look at blokes when you see a real fit one. and i mean REALLY LOOK HARD. Make him (ya man) know what you are doing, he is doing it to you. Na i mean darling.
And i dint know what your bum looks like, but i bet its fine, but why not go to the gym and do some work it will bring ya confidence up a bit and it only takes a couple of weeks to really see a difference. TRUST ME. Swimming is really good for legs and bum by the way.
Good luck darling and don't let him put you down or feel low man. You are the brain of his life probably, he couldn't live without you i bet so don't focus too much on the appearance things. Take care oh and congratulations on the baby girl. xx xx
2006-12-15 03:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by london lady 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men love butts/bums/behinds of young women they do not know / have not seen much of before.
Some of us even like facesitting images/stories on the internet, but not many of us. But what all straight men have in common is the urge to look when female beauty walks past (I even struggle with billboards & shop pictures).
This is nothing to worry about, and it does NOT mean that he finds you unattractive, nor that he is anything other than a good companion.
2006-12-15 03:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by Wise Kai 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH my goodness woman. Congrats on your new baby. But look at it this way, he may look at other girls bums but who's bum does he go home with? Yours! Men will always look no matter what. and also remember baby body or not, he loves you for you. and also no matter how beautiful you are which im sure you are, there will always be someone better. But always remember he chose you to have his baby and to be with. so dont trip. you got him girl. And best of wishes to you and your family. merry christmas
2006-12-15 03:35:21 · answer #5 · answered by stunt101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look at mens bums all the time. What's wrong with looking as long as you don't touch. You can't tell me you haven't looked. You may have a touch of the baby blues, I bet you look lovely, you may not feel it, give it time, it's early days. Enjoy your baby.
2006-12-15 03:34:21 · answer #6 · answered by chutney 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must do sports. And walk naked around the house, so he can see you bottom. Be sensual etc.
That will get his attention.
Comment about other women with him, so you can find out what he is attracted into, at them, and why? Ask him if he would rather like a woman with that type of "bottom"...
2006-12-15 03:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by iDontKnowWhatToDo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really hard not to check out other womens bums. In fact it is impossible. But don't worry about it though. I'm sure your bum is lovely.
2006-12-15 03:38:12 · answer #8 · answered by mattJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are so insensitive. They've grown up learning that 'guys will be guys' and women have grown up learning that we have to just deal with it. That's a bunch of crap if you ask me - guys should be more sensitive to their wives and pay A LOT more respect to their signficant others (not to mention showing respect to the woman he's disrespecting by checking her out)
Total pet peeve of mine and you're justified in being hurt. Don't let anyone tell you differently.
2006-12-15 03:34:49 · answer #9 · answered by razor_sharp_redhead 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
men look, I do when im with my girl too, it does not mean we gona go get it though.....let him look or he will find alternate ways of looking.
It is in our nature. I have never ever messed around, not once. but I look at every bum I can see, and everything else too.
2006-12-15 03:35:59 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋