2006-12-15 03:31:03 · 9 answers · asked by zeizei 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
I was when I was younger, I think it's a natural feeling, if you think someone you care for is giving attention to someone else. but as I have grown older, I have come to realize that you cant control what others do, or feel. If they have the need to talk to , or be with someone else, they may or may not act on those needs. People will do what they do. and you will react in the way in which you need to. You can let it bother you, and feel badly, or just let it go, and decide to stay with that person or not. Sometimes we get jealous for no reason, too, when our Someone was only having a polite conversation with someone, or something like that and we just saw a part of what actualy happened. We all have to interact with other people sometimes, sometimes it looks worse than it is. Sometimes we should be concerned. But jeolosy can make you feel bad, so I choose not to let it affect me that way..
2006-12-15 03:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by Big hands Big feet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is the result of one's own insecurity mainly in a relationship. Many if not most people seem to be jealous at one time or another. It makes people do some pretty bad things to one another.
Until you come to grips with your own insecurity will you be unable to put this green-eyed monster to sleep for good.
There used to be a very good web site about jealousy but it has been removed. I have a copy of it however and if you would like a copy I can email it to you.
2006-12-15 03:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very rarely do I get jealous over my woman. I trust or I do not. There is NO in between. You must have that or else all is lost. Sometimes I get a bit annoyed with the gentlemen that bring a smile from her but in the end she always seems to notice if that is occurring and gives me a most reassuring smile and wave. That always brings me back to how I feel about her and how safe she makes me feel. It is flattering to see men find her attractive for it lets me know how special and beautiful she is and how fortunate I am that we found each other.
2006-12-15 05:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by Casca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what, i am dealing with that right now also. being jealous sucks. if u think there is any actual reason you should be jealous think it over. reanalyze what your actually thinking. stop and ask if it is fair to your partner. being jealous always ruin things. i guess its gods way of making us go crazy. Jealousy always ruins things. he is yours, he is with you for a reason until you break up, then dont think otherwise, he loves you and thats why hes with you. so keep your head up and stop thinking so much.
2006-12-15 03:46:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know, its sad to say but I can be at times and it really bothers me when I feel like that especially when it is towards someone who I care about. There is nothing I can do about it because you cant fight your feelings! It really does suck!
2006-12-15 07:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by Crash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be confident about yourself,don't nag him,find ways that will keep your relationship strong.devote time with each other but don't neqlect your work or other duties.engage in activities that are enjoyable to both of you like sports,arts etc...
2006-12-15 03:45:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to admit, i am a little jealous when it comes to my husband, then i remember that he asked me to marry him and he comes home to me. so when i see other girls checking him out, i take it as a compliment.
2006-12-15 03:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by menolikey811 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it to the Lord and He will deliver you from it.
2006-12-15 03:34:24 · answer #8 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you just gotta let it go.... or it will eat away at you and your relationship.. you just have to make it go away
2006-12-15 03:59:46 · answer #9 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋