I'm single, but I know a couple hot married chicks that might be looking for something on the side. As long as they keep it discreet, I would do them. Is this wrong? Because seriously, if they don't go for me, they'll just find someone else to satisfy them, and I at least know how to handle such things.
2006-12-15 03:30:26 · 67 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In response to some of the answers I've gotten:
1. If the wife wants to cheat, she's going to cheat. I don't encourage them, or tell them they should leave their husbands. But if they try to seduce me, why stop them? It's not my fault their man's not keeping their attention. Instead of trying to exact revenge on the guy, why shouldn't the husbands correct whatever it is that's making their girl go to another man?
2. If I was married, and my wife cheated on me, I wouldn't be happy, but then, I wouldn't be dumb enough to marry a woman that I thought would cheat on me. See also: reasons why I don't want to get married.
3. Marriage is not a sacred union. All the hype and ceremony is nothing without the legal paperwork, and a marriage license is not equivalent to love. I submit the following evidence to support this claim:
Britney Spears
Michael Jackson
Pamela Anderson
Brad Pitt
2006-12-15 03:55:50 · update #1
More responses...
1. "Adultry is a sin" is only a valid argument if I share your belief in Jesus. FUNFACT: I don't.
2. All of you guys that are saying, "I'D KICK UR AZZ"... do you realize how incredibly insecure that sounds? If you married the right woman, you shouldn't have anything to worry about. I'm not a rapist, and I don't force anyone to do anything. If your wife gives herself up to someone else, it's because of something YOU did or didn't do. If you're that controlling and dominating, it's only a matter of time before they get sick of that crap.
Unless they're weak-willed women, in which case you don't have anything to worry about, because I'm not into generic submissive women.
2006-12-15 04:03:17 · update #2
Of course it's wrong.
2006-12-15 03:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The married woman you talk about, should BE ASHAMED of themselves. If I were you I wouldnt give them the time of day or your bed. Yeah, they might be easy to get and satisfy some of your desires, but deep down they are cheaters and s-luts. When they sleep with you, they are hurting a family (husband, kids-ect) Oh, you may not feel like you have anything to worry about, but you will be just as guilty and apart of their cheating. Its a dangerous game to play. Even if you "know" how to handle such things, beware. After these girls are done with you, they will only leave you for more men. You will be left behind like all the other guys before you. Feeling used and cheated out.
You want a woman that looks past the desire-lust, and takes you for your heart, next the body. A woman that will give you true happiness. No guilt will be on anyone, and your love & sex life will be far better than a few times with the 2 "married" woman.
Think upon this, I want the best for your life, Im sure you do to.
2006-12-15 03:38:37 · answer #2 · answered by Such A Chicka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It not really wrong for you.
You are single and thus selfish which is why you are single.
All single people are selfish so don't take this the wrong way.
Would you ignore a girl that has a boyfriend of course not. Why? Because it is her choice to stay in the relationship or ship. Whether people want to admit it or not it the same with marriage. Married people choose to stay together every day that they are married. The only truly bad person is the cheater in the relationship who is being dishonest to their partner. You're there, but she doesn't have to betray her partner. She could end her marriage/relationship and decide to be single again. Its her lie not yours. FYI, I wouldn't keep her after all she's a liar and a cheater major character flaws in my book, but for a good time why not.
2006-12-15 03:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is exclusive. You may think it is a thrill but it is very wrong and believe me whatever you sow you will reap at some point in your life. Get yourself a single woman and leave what belongs to another alone.
What is evil is always tempting. But it is also always wrong.
I find it remarkable that you use the examples of celebrities to support your reasoning.
If that is the path that you are going down then I pity you since you will only find loneliness and disappointment and emptiness at the end of your quest.
2006-12-15 03:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by JAM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was single I thought the same way, you know "as long as I got mine", but as a married man I can say I was wrong. Why be the cause of a happy home to break up, There are enough single loose women out there as well. Or ain't you got the game?
2006-12-15 03:40:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I will respond rationally.
There is a safety issue that you should be aware of:
You may end up banging the wife of a real nut case.
He may feel like he has nothing to lose and be willing to risk a jail sentence to exact revenge.
This is a classic risk vs reward scenario.
Just because she will do this with or without you does not mean it needs to be you.
Are there not enough available women around to have fun with?
2006-12-15 05:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your pathetic and so are they. If they are married they should be allowing their husbands to handle such matters. However, you keep in mind that whatever your reap you also sow. So, when you finally do find someone you love, you will find out what your chioces have gotten you. God has a way of letting us feel the pain we enduce on others. God bless****
2006-12-15 03:34:24 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, morally yes it's wrong. The right thing to do would be to encourage them to be loyal to their husbands.
Plus, why not just go for single women to begin with? I mean, if you're in a rut where you're only getting play from women disappointed in their marraiges, that's not exactly ideal, you know what I mean? Nobody likes chicks with all those strings attached.
2006-12-15 03:33:37 · answer #8 · answered by blacksockbandit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If HOT married chicks are checking you out you must be fine as hell. So forget about them and find some HOT single Chicks of your own. There ain't nothing like a HOT boy, in a HOT bed, making things STEAMY.
2006-12-15 03:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by Msright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooh, a morality question. Well, my advice is to look for a couple who openly swing. My marriage is open and we both are allowed to be with other people as long as no deep emotions are involved. Most married women who are looking to have sex outside of their marriage AREN'T just looking for sex. It's more about attention and love that they feel deprived of than anything else. I think you might wind up in a big pile of poo if you sleep with a married woman who's sneaking around behind her husband's back. Why do that to you, her, and him? There are plenty of cute couple who swing openly and it would be much less risky for all involved.
2006-12-15 03:34:48 · answer #10 · answered by September 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They won't keep it discreet. One of them will fall for you and it will turn into a big mess. Then her guy will find out and it will be an even bigger mess. You will end up ruining their lives when all they need is some help in their marriage.
2006-12-15 03:37:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋