is anyone happy and how do you get there?
2006-12-15 03:26:28 · 7 answers · asked by chance 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First accept the following.
No person, place or thing will ever MAKE you happy.
Happiness does not come from the outside world.
Second
You can not MAKE anyone else happy.
Third
Happiness is an emotion that is inside you.
Fourth
Know the difference between "wants" and "needs".
If I "WANT" more than I have I will always be poor.
If I "WANT" less than I have I will always be rich.
Why do people "WANT" things? Because they think it will make them happier. -SEE THE FIRST THING AGAIN LISTED ABOVE
If things don't make you happy then there is no point to want it. If you can embrace that you are over half way their.
Do people/person make you happier or do you allow yourself to be happy when peolpe/person are/is near by. Why? Because you think this person makes you happy. -SEE THE FIRST THING AGAIN.
If people don't make you have then there is no point NOT be happy when you are alone.
You are almost there.
What about when people you care for are not happy? Show them how to be happy, by not depending on someone or something to MAKE them happy.
FYI, I use to try and make my wife happy and all I ended up doing was failing her and myself. However, when I stopped trying to make her happy I had less stress and was happier and by me being happier she became happier.
2006-12-15 04:27:30 · answer #1 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'm very happy life is good. This is the time of year people tend to feel depressed. Some people tend to focus on materials items to bring happiness. When in reality, if your in good health, with a healthy family and friends, you're a very blessed man. (SMILE) I bet it really looks good on You!
2006-12-15 03:35:41 · answer #2 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you wake up each morning, thank the Lord for 5 things you are grateful for.
2006-12-15 04:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what ever you can to reduce your stress. This will make you a little happier.
2006-12-15 03:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by Floss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'm not:(
2006-12-15 03:30:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, but if you find out please let me know
2006-12-15 03:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋