is life better in your 30's than in your 20's ?

Question

im turning 30 and im worried that "is this as good as it gets?"

Answer 1

I partied - went to the bars/clubs, and had a ton of fun in my twenties - however, in my thirties I found what made me happy, what I truly enjoy and what was important to me - not to mention I was 35 when I had my first and only child - so I would have to say life gets better as we learn more about ourselves!!!!

Answer 2

Life has its advantages and disadvantages at any age. I think it is a mistake to keep waiting your entire life for a moment of epiphany when you can declare, "Behold! My life is perfect!". You definitely can achieve your life goals, but it can be difficult to appreciate it at the time, because there are always ongoing events that require your attention. As you get older, most likely you will increase in wealth but decrease in health and energy. How ironic is it that retired people have the most time and money to travel but the least energy? When you're young and poor, everything is struggle, but part of the fun of life when you're young is overcoming challenges to achieve success. In your 30 and 40s many people are getting married, having children, buying homes and moving up in the world. Certainly there are rewards at any age, along with limitations that change over time.

I am 33 years old, and my life has had its ups and downs just like happens to everyone else. I do miss the freedom of being a teen, with no real responsibilities in the world, lots of time for fun and summers off. I don't miss being broke, rarely having a girlfriend and driving a 30 year old car that required constant repair. I also don't miss have my parents constant trying to meedle in my affairs, which they consistently tried to ruin.

In my 20s I had some better jobs, some wild girlfriends, and some adventure. But I didn't have stability, a family, a house or a real carreer. The years I spent at the university would pay off in the long run, but I was far from wealthy and had to work full time and go to school. I still thought my life was fun and adventurous. I knew in my heart that it wasn't what I wanted long term, though.

In my later 20s, I got married and in my 30s I had two sons with my wife who are wonderful. We're buying our first house together, and fun and companionship still walk hand in hand with expense and work. We are poor, but we are happy. Everyone's happiness is based in something. For us, it is each other. For some of my friends, it's getting rich. I already am "rich" as far as I am concerned. I have no fear of getting older, and I accept that while I may become wealthier, my body will wear out and finally I will die. No one escape the ultimate fate of life, death. So you might as well make the best out of what you have.

At any point in your life your life can as happy as your circumstances allow. When you are a child, you always dream of "when you grow up". That is an illusion, i think "growing up" just has to do with accepting your responsibilities and guiding your own destiny. If you are not happy with your life, then you should always try to add a little spice and adventure to your life, even if it's just a weekend getaway or a new hobby. You should ask "is this as good as it gets?"...instead you should ask yourself, "Am I doing everything I can to enjoy my life to the fullest (and taking care of those around me, of course)?"

Answer 3

My husband and I are also turning 30 and had the same question. We started really thinking it over about 27 years old. We came to the conclusion that the older you get the more information you have about not screwing up so you get to enjoy more of your experiences. Next, you have to create experiences which meant being more responsible and accountable. We found that responsibility and accountability created more for us to have in wealth and fun but with that it just circled around to having to be more responsible and accountable. We got frustrated till we realized it was an honor to have all we had even though it needed us to maintain it, it took hard work to get it and it was a value to us of all we'd given, sacrificed and grew up into. Life isn't about just waiting to see what comes along, it is about creating yourself into someone you'll be proud of when you're leaving this episode of life. Growing older can seem harder on one spectrum but it can seem much easier on the other. Choose to simplify everything and everything will be better than you could imagine.

Answer 4

I'm in my 50s and THIS is my favorite time of life. My kids are grown, I have beautiful grandkids, lots of friends,more money than I used to have, a job I love, more time to travel, etc. . Life gets better the longer you liive, so long as you have good health. This is because you are wiser and have so many life experiences to rely on in situations the longer you live. Also, as you age, you care less and less about what other people think of you, and you can concentrate on making yourself happy. It's true. Wait and see. Aging is not all bad. The thirties are an exciting time! You are no longer considered an inexperienced kid! Enjoy!

Answer 5

I'm 33 and the last 3 years have been the best years of my life. I have sort of "discovered myself" (sorry if it sounds to much like a cliche!)

But yes for me my 30's - so far have been much better than my 20's.

Answer 6

My 30s are MUCH better than my 20s were!! Enjoy it baby!!!!

Answer 7

Depends on your life. But in your 30s you keep getting smarter, wiser, and learn to appreciate things more. I'm sure that is true as you get older all together.

Answer 8

Its better, you are more confident and know what you want out of life. 20s you are still learning about life I reckon. So dont worry!

Answer 9

every dekade has it's own goods ... u will never get 20's or 30's or whatever age u are in .....so enjoy every single moment
and leave the check for ur last days when u r old and grey

Answer 10

I'm almost 29 and even I know life ends at 30...... Dont believe the hype.....