and we just got married 3 wks ago Im 20 hes 21 and we live at home with his parents for now our 2 year old daughter him and me all share a room togehter. I know hes not cheating on me because he is always home. What gives?
2006-12-15 03:14:45 · 40 answers · asked by moodymouse54 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when you find out let me know...... I am in the same boat.
2006-12-15 03:16:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make special time together. I'm 23 and live with my 25 year old fiance and my parents and I know it can be tough being comfortable enough to get intimate when you know other people are home. Have a lunch time quicky when you know the baby is at school or with a babysitter or if you have the money rent a hotel room and just spend time together alone. I don't think you get very much time when it is just you and him and that is what you need.
2006-12-15 03:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ang S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's feeling uncomfortable with the fact that your 2 year old is in the room and if you go somewhere else in the house maybe you guys could be caught by his parents. I suggest maybe getting going out just the two of you to a really nice hotel for the night or if you have no money for a hotel, go out on a date and end it in the car. Good luck with everything and I'm sure it'll get better once you and him are out on your own.
2006-12-15 03:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by Susan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You live at his parents home and your daughter shares a room with you. That's the reason. I'm sure you would never think of having sex while your daughter is in the room. Find some alone time.
2006-12-15 03:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you guys should've waited to get married and have a child until you were financially able to handle both. Living with the parents is NOT the sign of an adult. Why don't you guys work on finding your own home for your family?
2006-12-15 03:23:51 · answer #5 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry it is just an uncomfortable situation, but now would be a good time to start getting the hang of using your communication skills. That is the best way to keep your marriage open and healthy. Just don't keep things from each other and if something is bothering you make sure you discuss it with him in a loving gentle way. Try to get some alone time with him outside of the house.
2006-12-15 03:20:52 · answer #6 · answered by Maizy * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably not comfortable making love with your baby in the room. Plan a romantic evening. See if a friend can watch the baby overnight send his parents to the movies and for the next two hours act like rabbits
2006-12-15 03:18:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs privacy. Doing it with your daughter in the same room is not right. You need to have your own place and a room for your daughter. 2 yr old should not be sleeping parents anymore. As you can see it's not good for your sex life.
2006-12-15 03:27:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are not comfortable with being intimate when there parents are in the house regardless of age, or marriage. And Sharing a room with your child may have some effect as well.
2006-12-15 03:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by jm_radi2006 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get a room!!! Where's your respect? I'm very proud of him for not disrespecting his parents home! You should be shame of yourself! Once you two get established, out on your own ,have a freak-neak, but not at your in-laws-home. I've been married 11years and not once disrespect my mother-ion-law home! Girlfriend,I suggest you get a room, and have your husband the way you want!But don't hassle the man behind something so petty!
2006-12-15 03:34:51 · answer #10 · answered by hot chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the jokes and riddle board??? I would figure that it's because YOUR CHILD is in the room!!! Also--the parents in the same house--I'd be nervous that they'd hear--and your hubby probably feels the same way.
Why don't you guys get it together and move out? If you are old enough to be married and have a kid, you should be old enough to have your own place.
2006-12-15 03:21:41 · answer #11 · answered by kathylouisehall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋