People in this world who are so bitter that they can't even stand the word 'hello' before they get all distressed? I mean there are medications out there to help with this so why take anger out on the ones who don't even know you? I can't stand it when people are so bitter that they have to be that way no matter what, Life can't be that bad.
2006-12-15 03:12:44 · 6 answers · asked by Mariachi 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Some people have been hurt or abandoned so often they can no longer trust. They lash out at the world and when they lash out at strangers its safe because they will never see them again. Medication isnt the answer unless as a part of a treatment program. Life can be that bad for some people and understanding it and having compasion for them is a first step in helping them see that some people are good.
2006-12-15 03:32:24 · answer #1 · answered by fancyname 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's what's referred to as "The Blank Slate Theory." It states that a person's environment determines their personality. When we are born, we do not know hate, anger, evil, etc. We are taught it. Therefore these people are only a product of their environment. Plus, the things they go through in life add to their anger and bitterness. It also depends on your specific strengths and weaknesses and how you want to be portrayed. Some people could be stabbed in the back and still are happy and loving, but that's who they are. It's my personal belief that the the bad and bitter people in this world balance out those of us who are happy and fun-loving. That balance is what makes the world go round
2006-12-15 12:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately to some people life is full of anger and they carry it with them, they are miserable inside refusing to let anyone in for whatever reason and they end up being mean to other people they encounter. It's actually a very sad situation for these people need help, need people to talk to, people that will listen to them.
You're right life isn't that bad but some people have a hard time dealing with it and seeing the ray of light especially if they never had any guidance growing up.
I encountered an angry man at a dept store once who chewed me out for taking too long in his opinion with the clerk asking questions ref. an electronic item. I was only with this clerk 5 min.
I politely turned around and told him that if he was so upset at such a thing and if he was in a hurry he was welcome to take my turn in line and let him pass in front of me.
2006-12-15 11:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by Nanci 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't about whether life is good or bad. One just has to learn to ignore most people out there because, they insist on being so negative.
2006-12-15 14:22:04 · answer #4 · answered by montrealissima 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To that person(s) life is totally beyond enjoyment.Basically because of their fearful choice to move on and consistently live in the problem which is ultimately themselves.
2006-12-15 11:28:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there are those that seem to have phychological problems that we are unable to change. We are able to modify those behaviors, but the person themself will need to want to change for the modification process to work. But unfortunately we are unable to control those around us, just ourselves.
2006-12-15 11:33:10 · answer #6 · answered by Candy W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋