okay my best friend is dating one of my ex-boyfriends and I now he still likes me but he is using my friend. But I now my best friend likes him a lot but i still like him and i want totell her but i don't wnat to hurt her feelings. And i had a part-a last weekend for christmas and my best friends boyfriend started to make out with me and i went along with it what should i do because i really like hm but my friend really likes him 2!! :((( what do i do?
2006-12-15 03:11:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oh to be 14 again.... sigh....
2006-12-15 03:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by Arty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he the only guy in town or what? How can you consider being friends with this girl still? Because you and her are not friends, if she got with one of your exes in the first place. Now, you are trying to get back with him. What's that? Friends don't do what you and her is doing. Since you and her are really not true friends. Do what you want, you already have. It didn't bother you when you were making out with him at the party. So why should bother you now.
I personally would get me a new man and a new friend because that's dangerous what you all is doing.
2006-12-15 03:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by Gail S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-30 11:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by ludwig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats when you both have to make the sacrifice for one anouther to not be with him regardless how much you like him. That is if you guys are REALLY that good of friends. And before she started dating him you should have told her you still liked him... that may have helped the situation. And the whole makeout thing... Not cool.. You should really tell her before she finds out from someone else. That will hurt her worse than hearing it from you.
2006-12-15 03:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by jm_radi2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why is your friend dating her best friends (you) ex? That's a big no-no in my book, sorry.
I would be honest with her and let her know your feelings and what went on. If you two are truly best friends, you can work through it and ditch that guy altogether. He's not worth it, no man is. Friendships are a stronger bond than any man.
2006-12-15 03:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a horrilbe situation. You will end up losing both your best friend and possibly the guy as well. You need to be honest with both of them and sadly will have to choose one over the other. Personally I would pick my best friend because a guy who is willing to cheat on your friend will more than likely cheat on you with someone else. Will that be okay with you?
2006-12-15 03:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by Little anionyx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of All, Your bestfriend is not your friend, because if she was your bestfriend she wold not be going with your ex-boyfriend.Second of all, you were wrong because even if he did make a past on you, you should have been woman enough to make him stop not go along with it. And third of all, if you like him so much why did yall break up. I think that you like him because you are jealous that he is going with your bestfriend. He probaly dumped you for her. You are just trying to get revenge.And that's not right, thats childish.
2006-12-15 03:22:01 · answer #7 · answered by shavone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just tell her straight up how you feel about him and how he feels about you b/c if hes makin out with you and dating her then he obviously still has some feelings for you.Yall all need to get together and decide what yall should do about your problem.And depending on how they act about the situation will show who your real friends are and who arent. GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-15 03:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by Daniel Hillhouse`s Girl! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont know why or who broked off. but if you truly like your best friend let her have him, she will find out sooner or later. but to me if he's going out with her, and making out with you, what makes you think he won't be making out with another girl, hes a player, and you and your friend deserve someone else. is he really worth it , no guy is worth losing a friends, as there is no girl worth losing a friend over. good luck.
2006-12-15 03:18:03 · answer #9 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are probably likely to lose your friendship if you tell her but he is obviosly using her. The two of you cannot continue to be decietful behind her back...you're just gonna hurt her worse. Either tell her or leave him alone.
2006-12-15 03:14:39 · answer #10 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no good answer here, someone is going to get hurt... the question is, do you care more about your friend, or your ex boyfriend?
2006-12-15 03:14:33 · answer #11 · answered by hihosilver2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋