Me and my best friend have been friends for like 6 years but now she is trieing to kiss me and all that and she like s to get reall close to me! What do I do? I still want to be her friend and I don't wnat to hurt her feelings. Do I go along with it? Or what?
2006-12-15 02:58:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well the question is, do you want to go along with it? It seems you do not. Just tell her straight up you're not into her that way. That happened with me and my best friend. I came onto her and she said it prob wasn't a good idea. We are still great friends and I'm actually glad nada happened :)
2006-12-15 03:16:00 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont want to do it you should just tell her. Why go along with it. It will either help or hurt your friendship, but if you like how things have been all of this time then you need to just go ahead and tell her . be honest and straight up. if she is your friend she will respect you why be worried about her feelings she is invading your space.
2006-12-15 03:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you "go along" with a guy that you didn't want to kissing you?
just tell her you're not interested in that type of relationship with her because you prefer her as a friend. not everyone is bi. she may get mad for a little while, but if she's really your friend she'll come back.
2006-12-15 03:02:21 · answer #3 · answered by marie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you truly do not swing that way tell her. Because you might have sent her mixed feelings or something. But just say "Hey___, I'm not interested in you like that. We're friends and thats all it will ever be. Best friends."
2006-12-15 03:02:18 · answer #4 · answered by Rose F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you're feeling tell her you arent into that kinda stuff. but you still would like to be friends
2006-12-15 05:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by sweetheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me a long time ago, i liked her but not like that. so i took her to my boyfriends house and we all had drinks i left her in the living room with another friend and went in the bathroom with my boyfriend and had boot knocken naughty loud sex...she got hurt and never tryed touching me again.....good!
2006-12-15 03:05:52 · answer #6 · answered by glitsyjewels 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm if your not into that chick on chick stuff then dont do it just cuz you guys are close friends..
2006-12-15 03:00:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u like it go on, but if u don't just diss her as your friend. she's using u obviously :)
2006-12-15 03:04:32 · answer #8 · answered by Zenithia Victora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i don't think that you should go along with it. you don't have to be gay if you don't want to.
2006-12-15 03:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by Bout It 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her to stop it - its making you uncomfortable.
2006-12-15 03:01:24 · answer #10 · answered by arewa247 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋