its puzzling to me - why would a childhood friend of over 15 years just not contact you anymore - pretty much act as if you do not exist. its true that our lives have gone in separate directions - we are still both trying to establish ourselves with our families - does that really mean that she cannot even pick up the phone to call or even drop a few e-lines. this is serious to me - ONLY MATURE ANSWERS!
2006-12-15 02:57:52 · 7 answers · asked by arewa247 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okay Please Read in the bible Ecclesiastes Chpt 3 v1-8 I have a cousin and we call each other sisters we go through this a year on a year off or longer when we were growing up you could not find one with out the other. But as we grew older God had other situations for us just recently I received a call she had a mild heart attack. we talk and things but what Im trying to say to you is that it doesn't mean that either one of you love one the less if God moves you in and out of situations you have to move. Write her send her a card or call it dosnt mean you gave in first it just means that it came your season first. Like that famous song gose you just ran across my mind. If God put her on your heart than he is working with you to see if you really loved her the way you say. I hope this helps
2006-12-15 03:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by alonda H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure this is serious to you and that you are feeling hurt. She may not even realize, with the separate directions and all, how long its been since she did contact you. Have you tried to contact her? Perfect time...send her a Christmas Card.
Another thing that happens...and this I can tell you from experience....so much time goes by that you feel ashamed to contact the friend.
I think, after giving it some thought, that I would contact her...not directly, but a card or an email...something nice...how are you doing, its been so long since we talked and I have been thinking about you...
If she does not return your message...I would assume that maybe she did not feel as close as you did and invest my time in new friends. MOM
2006-12-15 03:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by Susan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are hurt that your friend does not contact you because both of you have gone your separate ways. Have you tried calling her and letting her know how you feel? If you haven't done that, tell her. It is tearing you apart on the inside and you want to do whatever you can to keep your friendship alive. Friends do come and go, but true friendships last forever. Once you contact her and tell her how you feel, you can make arrangements to visit her and her family or you can make arrangements to have her come and visit you and your family. Keep the communication lines open. I hope this helps. Best of luck.
2006-12-15 03:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in skool the othr day we read a book bout a hirl moving a way and her friend nevr mailed her bac and she thought they were old friends now and tat she made new friends and forgot bout her... u have 2 be the one 2 call and tlk maybe she thnks tat u feel the same way bout her tat u guys r old friends or maybe she is just busy just give her a call urself or write a lettr them anyway u can contact them
2006-12-15 03:06:44 · answer #4 · answered by Mannie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has a lot going on in her life that she doesn't want you to see. She will come around when she is ready. Give her time.
2006-12-15 03:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goodbye is permanent. If I even know I may not ever that person again, I will say see you later.
2006-12-15 03:01:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that once happened to me, it's hard to say good-bye because after that it may be the last time that you see each other. Life is ruff
2006-12-15 04:29:43 · answer #7 · answered by Pharaoh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋