i got a pink sexy outfit with a pink furry santa hat from victoria secret and i want to give him a lap dance. However i don't really know any sexy moves but i really want to do this for him. How can i learn or what can i do?
2006-12-15 02:55:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
first of all i want to say that you wanting to give a lap dance shows that your a very good fiance!!!Most men want a woman that is willing to do things to turn them on and keep the spark going.....the same old thing and straight sex gets boring!!!
OK now here's how to give a lap dance......
(i'm an ex dancer so i can add self helpful advice on how to give a lapdance...... )
Some sexy beat song ideas:
~Drip sweat-david banner
~i touch myself-the divinyls
~get low-li john
~over and over again-nelly
~promiscuous girl-nelly
~angel-aerosmith
~diamonds and pearls-prince
~lets get it on-marvin gaye
~you can leave your hat on-joe cocker
(Anything with a steady ,sexy or slow beat will work)
Here are some more "move" ideas:
(this may be too graphic for some so if it is dont read any further,but i dont know how else to say it,than to just say it)
~you stand barefoot on the guys knees and slowly grind your privates in the guys face
~you turn away from the guy and spread your leggs and arch your back and pause to let him admire you....
~you slide your leggs slowly down your leggs while in the above position until your hands are as far down as you can get them and then you slowly slide them back up as you come up
~you turn away from him and lay/lean your body over him as you pinch your nips,and or rub your body
~you grind your hips over his lap with his leggs close and your open
~if youre flexible,you get close to him and lift your leg up in a ballerina type pose
~you turn away from him and lay belly down on his lap,trying not to touch his pelvic area with yours,but just above it,and grind,as if youre having sex,but you arent.....
~you slowly grind down to the floor or you squat with your leggs spread down to the ground and then you simulate like youre having oral...
~you put one foot inbetween his leggs on the chair or on the arm of the chair,with that leg bent and the other foot on the ground and you grind
~as you walk torwards him in between moves you can walk forward while rolling your hips from front to back
EXTRA HELPFUL THINGS
~do try to feel sexy and turned on
~do use alot of eye contact
~do dance to sexy music
~the more you wear,the more you can take off
~school girl,nurse,maid,and police woman costumes work well
~sexy lingerie works well too
~remember if you run out of moves to do,you can always repeat moves
~the slower you move,the more sexy it will look
~do not let him touch you......but you can touch him
HOPE THIS HELPS.....
2006-12-17 15:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by moi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG I bought the same outfit!!! It's soo cute and short!!! Make sure to wear really high heels (at least 3 inches) so that your legs look amazing and sexy in that super short skirt!!! Also, if your stomach is a little flabby, it will be great if you lost a few pounds
Okay, first play the music and start kissing him while he is sitting on a comfortable chair so that it's not awkard and turn him on (your're on top)...then, get up and take your shirt off. Start getting super close to him and opening his legs and massaging his inner thigh...and take off his shirt...then get really close and move your upper body back and forth (to the rythm of the music, etc...)
But most importantly, RELAX!!! and make sure that you feel super sexy and have great breath!!! Make your skin super soft and wear coconut shampoo (it's a turn on smell for men..I read it in Cosmopolitan)...definetly shave your legs and armpits...and go brazilian!!! (men love it...at least most)
2006-12-17 10:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you can locate it, go to YOUTUBE and find the episode of Oprah where there was a lady actually giving steps and teaching women how to dance on a chair and a pole.
If not the Oprah episode, I am sure there is some type of video on there where someone is doing a step by step sequence of learning how to lap dance.
2006-12-15 03:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Albritton 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I saw that outfit at VS and I love it!! Anyways its all in your hips. All you have to do is move around sexy pretend like you are riding him and stuff. It wont last long a few minutes of that and you will be off to the bedroom.
2006-12-15 02:59:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
first of all I think Joe C is gay or dead for telling you not to do it. Second of all Carmen Elektra has a series of dvd's for erotic pole dancing. It is actually an exercise video but, it teaches you how to dance, strip and pole dance.
2006-12-15 05:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by RockMoraco 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The sexy moves are really touching him. You may show off you body and he will like that but the contact is what really works
2006-12-15 02:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by shadouse 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Check Spencers or an Adult store for books/DVDs aimed to teach this very subject.
You could also try searching on Froogle.
2006-12-15 02:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Basically it is sex with clothes on and no penetration. If you know how to have sex, you can give a lapdance. Most of all just be sexy and confident, he will love it. Have fun, I'm sure he is going to!
2006-12-15 03:00:25 · answer #8 · answered by PDH 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Rent or better yet but the carmen elektra video.
2006-12-15 03:29:16 · answer #9 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why don't you watch some porn and get some ideas, or maybe even start using your imagination, but practice first and just have fun with it! That's a great idea by the way!
2006-12-15 02:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋