My fiancee wants to get an Abortion because she is sick 24 / 7..... What types of Abortions are available.....Need appointment FAST?
AND YES MY MOTHER SHOWED HER THE VIDEO SILENT SCREAM AND IT DID NOT MOVE MY FIANCEE AT ALL ...SHE WOULD RATHER DIE THAT TO HAVE THAT PARASITE IN HER ANY LONGER....
Also my fiance is making sure I get a vasectomy in two weeks to prevent it from happening again and I agree
When we are ready for a kid we are going to adopt ....my future wife's twin sister has adopted two children from china
We believe it is very selfish to give birth to a child when their are millions of orphans ......we will never change our minds on that belief
THANKS.........Dolph
2006-12-15 02:38:23 · 30 answers · asked by Buda B 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm not for or against abortion because I think that every situation is different. And, this is one unique situation you're talking about.
There are plenty of clinics in your local phone book. You can look up types of abortions on the internet, at the library, or the clinic can explain the procedure to you.
2006-12-15 02:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by ☆skyblue 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
He said his 'future wife' u muppet. Why dont u read the question properly before you attempt an answer
Dolph
your fiance and your decision to have an abortion is totally your own opinion, if you would rather adopt than have the experience of your fiance giving birth then that's your choice.
However, i do feel you should think carefully about an abortion as if you both really dont want the child then you should of used protection. I think it is cruel to get pregnant then have an abortion - however that' s just my opinion. and as for calling the Foetus a Parasite how would she cope with a real child (and they arent always lilttle angels) you cant just decide one day you have had enough !!
Good luck in life
2006-12-15 02:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by sxe_gal_y2k3 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
There are many methods of abortion. The procedure used depends largely upon the stage of pregnancy and the size of the unborn child.
Those that invade the uterus and kill the child by instruments which enter the uterus through the cervix; those that kill the preborn child by administration of drugs and then induce labour and the delivery of a dead baby; and, those that invade the uterus by abdominal surgery.
8 Weeks: At this early stage of development, suction abortions are performed using a smaller tube, requiring little dilation of the cervix. This is called "menstrual extraction." However, if all the fetal remains are not removed, infection results, requiring full dilation of the cervix and a scraping out of the womb.
12 weeks: Suction Aspiration -General or local anaesthesia is given to the mother and her cervix is quickly dilated. A suction curette (hollow tube with a knife-edged tip) is inserted into the womb. This instrument is then connected to a vacuum machine by a transparent tube. The vacuum suction, 29 times more powerful than a household vacuum cleaner, tears the fetus and placenta into small pieces which are sucked through the tube into a bottle and discarded.
Dialation and Cutterage: This method is similar to the suction method with the added insertion of a hook shaped knife (curette) which cuts the baby into pieces. The pieces are scraped out through the cervix and discarded.
2006-12-15 02:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by PanicGirl 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You both are selfish, selfish, selfish! You want a baby and your pregnant but you would rather kill YOUR baby because its not easy to be pregnant? Get a clue, life is hard, killing a baby wont make you better. If you get an abortion, I hope it haunts you for the rest of your life because that's a selfish and horrible reason to kill a poor little baby. And you guys need to learn about hell, cause that is where you will go for murder! You don't deserve children.
2006-12-15 03:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by kristin h 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are on the right track. Don’t make another human sucking off the resources of the Earth. But let me ask you this? Why bother to adopt? How about not having kids at all? Also China is going to be the worlds’ largest economy, so why not let some baby stay there where they will have a better future than they will in the Western world?
2006-12-17 00:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by Marvin 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
i hav several issues with this question. number 1 i think your making it up because you put you "wife" once and then your "fiance'" each other time, so yes i think you are just trying to rattle people. Also to say its selfish to give birth to a baby becuase of all of the orphans is ludicris for several reasons. number one being just because i have a biological child doesnt mean i cant have an adopted one as well, why does my child not deserve a good quality of life but an orphan does??? also i was wondering how murdering a baby isnt selfish, but giving one life is?? your whole outlook on life is very strange, and eveil in it roots (whether you realize it or not). as the old saying goes, dont breed them if you dont plan to feed them. and to call a baby a parasite is an insult to mothers and babies everywhere. my wife had a miscarriage and at no point were we happy a parasite was gone. we mourned because our child was gone. Its not about your wife, or fiance or whatever you wish to call her, its about the baby.
2006-12-15 02:54:13 · answer #6 · answered by Hafeman 5000 4 · 8⤊ 2⤋
Your wife is one sick woman who needs some medical care. That child is not a parasite inside of her. Take her to your local mental health facility shes needs some assistance in dealing with reality. Many women are sick a lot when pregnant and if you all feel soo strongly about adoption why did you allow this to happen?
2006-12-15 03:34:35 · answer #7 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
It depends on how far along she is. If she is around 16 weeks she wont be able to get one....if she's earlier than that she can get one.
Its your guys decision but if she see's a baby as a parasite, then she's got issues and I guess its a good thing she's having an abortion because she'd be a terrible mother if she see's her baby that way.
2006-12-15 02:47:14 · answer #8 · answered by alexis73102 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
As a woman that has had a hysterectomy and then the sex life went to hell i'd have some solutions, no longer all of them yet some. do you want them printed right here or want an instantaneous e mail?
2016-10-18 08:04:14 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't honestly believe that you just said what you said:
"We believe it is very selfish to give birth to a child when their are millions of orphans..."
But yet you and your fiance are perfectly willing to kill your own baby? there are many couples out there who would love to adopt your baby. If you are so agreeable to adoption, why don't you just give your baby up for adoption?
How ironic is that?
2006-12-15 02:55:34 · answer #10 · answered by jjodom1010 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋