she has a drug problem,but is now finally getting off the drugs.she swears she never cheated on me with him.but she has sleep over his( drug dealers )house many times.he is a old man.. and gross.and she use to always call him to come get her when we argued over the drug use.and then call me to come get her a day are two later.she stays there usally because i well not bring her there.so he comes and get her!and ive seen her flirting with other men.she says she didnt relaize she was doing this.im just wondering if she has cheated on me with this fool.what do u think?
2006-12-15 02:25:37 · 3 answers · asked by derrik 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Trust is more important than anything. If you dont have trust you dont have a relationship. Dont start a marrige with lies and deceit. Marriage is already hard enough!
2006-12-15 03:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by MusicWoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a key component in any relationship, if you can't trust her, you certainly shouldn't be marrying her. The drug issue is another matter all together, and shouldn't be ignored either. I would hesitate before making a committment to anyone with substance abuse problems, simply because the additions are usually so difficult to deal with, that the person isn't really capable of making good decisions with the rest of their life.
2006-12-15 10:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She lied.
She gave it up for the drugs
Its sad but I have seen it many a time and it does not matter what the guy lools like because it is all about the drugs
2006-12-15 10:35:25 · answer #3 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋