OK, I'm almost 5'2" and 110 pounds. I've been dating a very sweet giant for a while now. He is 6'4" about 240 rock solid. Well, things were starting to get a little hot last night and that is when I noticed he basically has a third arm, and it's not in his shirt. I'm no newby to sex but I'm acutally terrified. Have you ever broked up with a guy because sized does matter? Please serious at least semi-serious replies only.
2006-12-15 02:23:23 · 32 answers · asked by Becky 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
broked?? what was I thinking.
2006-12-15 02:25:04 · update #1
No, I have never dumped a guy because of this "problem". (small or large)
You know the thing is...throughout time...a mans penis fits into a woman. Always has. Next time you two are together, but during a neutral time...ask him about his asset. Voice your concerns. I will place fair bets that he has had this said to him before and knows how to cope with it.
2006-12-15 02:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, To be completely honest here... and that's what im doing! Size does matter. If u r a small woman, and kno (after tryn) that u cant accommodate him... u can cause damage there. So many women say there is no such thing as "TOO BIG". BS... Im 5'3 and wiegh 110, my ex husband was a foot taller.. and WELL endowed. It didnt work. No two women r alike, and unfortunately... some r larger, smaller, deeper,or less shallow. U will never know until u give the guy a try! If u find it "uncomfortable", then u will stretch over time. Don't just assume that its not possible. If u "hurt", see if u can possibly find a more accommodating position. Lying on ur back, or side may solve the problem. Do not try "doggy" or any other positions where he is behind u until u kno what u can handle. If after 3-4 times u hav no success, u need to try masturbating with a large soft rubber dildo until u can stretch urself out a bit. If that doesn't help... U might have to take the next step. Talk to the guy befor hand, or do what I did... keep quite and test the water. U know better that any1 - what u can handle. And chances are - he acknowledges the fact that he's large. I seriously doubt he's gonna try it too hard or too quick the first few times..Good luck!
2006-12-15 02:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by bbygirl529 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look, I am no longer a newby both. But, while I learned my new guy had one greater than I could have even think for the reason that real...real...real...I could have in no way guessed even by means of simply watching on the entrance of his denims. That is how severe I am approximately it. Well, keep in mind that...I was once pleasantly amazed at how smooth and exclusive the night time became out to be. Yes, I was once sore for days however we do not do matters anymore for the reason that we've got determined to attend till we're married. But, factor is....revel in....take time, be certain you're good lubricated and feature amusing! wait a couple of days earlier than doing some thing once more to maintain from being overly sore and hurting. Good success and as they are saying...a BIG guy IS tough to uncover!!
2016-09-03 15:35:20 · answer #3 · answered by salguero 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's funny when guys worry that they are "too small." I think being "too big" carries it's one set of problems. I would voice my concerns with him, that way when you both are having sex, he can make sure to be gentle, at least the first few times. The female body has a way of accomodating. Think about it this way...we were built so that we could actually push a baby out through there...sometimes rather large babies! Don't break up with him over this...you mentioned he was "very sweet" so I'm sure he will understand. It will just be something the two of you will have to work on together.
2006-12-15 02:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All it takes is to have a heart-to-heart conversation about it. You could explain to him how you feel. There are ways that'll allow you to ease in and adjust to his size. Your body is incredibly elastic (remember the 10-12 lb babies you guys deliver!!).
Just got to be a little patient and careful the first few times especially because you are going to be conscious about it and that can also slow your ability to respond and accept him.
Again, nothing like sharing with him your fear and concern and I'm sure he'll definitely cooperate to be a little more patient and understanding when you guys make love. But, that sure isn't a reason to break-up I think :-)
Good luck.
2006-12-15 02:33:29 · answer #5 · answered by houstonian352000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear asker,
Size do matter, and what I have learn is that bigger is BETTER. I never realized how bad I got it before until I met my man. He is HUGE and I've never seen something like that before.
It took a while to get used to it, a little bit of patience to get it in and some lube... and voila! I've never been SO satisfied in my life before!!!. I LOVE it and I don't think that all the previous experiences I've had are even worth comparing. I'll never go back to medium size again!
Supersize it baby! It's WELL WORTH IT>
Good luck
2006-12-15 02:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by Blunt 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you have me rolling on the floor laughing!! Anyway, I had a boyfriend years ago who had a third arm like that. I'm a little taller than you, and he was over 6 feet as well, but when I saw his package, I just lost it, and I didn't have sex with him. My excuse was that I didn't want him to break me in half; his penis was about as thick around as the upper end of a baseball bat, and he was quite proud of it, too!
I didn't break up with him because of that, but I sure kept my va-jay-jay intact! Good luck if you decide to go ahead and tackle that monster! Just use lots of lube and go S-L-O-W-L-Y, you should be able to handle it.
2006-12-15 03:24:30 · answer #7 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! honey you got your hands full! well does it hurt?? if it hurts then try only using half of the tool! until your body gets used to it! believe it or not it has nothin gto do with size and weight in that department its all about how you do it! so i would suggest taking it real slow and not going deep until you adjust! don't be afraid its nothing you can't handle! TRUST ME!
2006-12-15 02:40:54 · answer #8 · answered by tluckie313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be dating a black man...Don't worry about it after a while you will get used to it and it won't hurt as much...You have to give it time so you haven't had a man that size so your body will stretch to his size and you will get used to it and love it as long as he know what he is doing with all of that....
2006-12-15 06:42:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had one on both ends of the spectrum. Size does matter. My advice, hang on and enjoy the ride. If we can push a child out - we can certainly accommodate whatever he has to offer.
2006-12-15 02:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by nomoreamrs 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋