i have a friend that i've known since 4th grade,and i've just moved this school and i'm moving to a different school in January.i'm emo/punk and she's a striaght up slut(prep)...
im a shy person at first so i don't have alot of friends here.she's one of the only ppl i hang out with but she gets on my nerves now and she has a friend that is a really girly girly(yuck!) and i really really hate her too,thats prpbaly why i don't like my friend anymore..
i dont wantt to be friends with her anymore and i've been ignoring her and being mean but i dont think she relised that i dont want to be friends anymore...but if we're not friends anymore i won't have anymore else to be best friends with and then all of the latina preppy girls will hate me...(which i dont care because i hate them too).
so what should i do?
2006-12-15 02:13:44 · 10 answers · asked by PUNK PRINC3SS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
all you people suck!!!
none of these answers are helping!
2006-12-15 02:19:10 · update #1
Has your friend changed or have you changed? Try being honest with your friend. Tell her that things have gotten weird since she started hanging out with her other girly girl friend and you don't really enjoy her company. Maybe suggest hanging out just the two of you or doing something you enjoy doing. If she has been a good friend to you then maybe you shouldn't be mean. Everybody needs a friend.
2006-12-15 02:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by BlueFish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really do not want to be friends with this girl at least have the decency to tell her to her face, not in a mean way, say to her " I have really enjoyed being friends with you for this time, but I feel that we are heading in different directions now, and I think it is best of we don't hang out together anymore" leave it at that. I don't know what you will do then when you have no friends, I guess you will have to spend a lot of time on your own, or in the library til you make some new friends.
2006-12-15 10:20:02 · answer #2 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you just need to comre right out and tell her that you don't want to be friends with her any more instead of being mean to her. If you really don't care about having about having any friends then don't have none. Be honest with yourself you really do want to be friends with her it just sometimes her being really girly girl get on your nerves. If you didn't care about her feelings you won't not being asking for help.
Second of all you need to really think to yourself why did you'll become friends in the first place. Can you really ditch a friend who has been there for you since the fourth grade? Be honest with yourself and her.
2006-12-15 10:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by SouthernGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop hating. What has she ever done to you to get such little respect, except be friends with you when you had no one. I would stop taking your friendships for granted because you want to be a little punk. I think you are being selfish, and she deserves a better friend anyway. you would be doing her a favor by telling her now because eventually you will probably end up doing something messed up to her, when she doesn't deserve it. You're completely heartless, basically
2006-12-15 10:17:43 · answer #4 · answered by TOO MUCH TO THINK ABOUT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
True friends work through their problems and are accepting of each other as they are and as they change over time. Hopefully you grow in the same directions, but unfortunately it doesn't always happen that way. But, while you may not approve of your friend's way of life or other friends, she has been a friend for a long time and is not worth losing.
2006-12-15 10:20:31 · answer #5 · answered by TCO_25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find other emo friends. you can't be the only emo in your school. i would think that you can find some new friends who are more your style. you don't have to completely drop your old friend . but if you start hangin out w/ other emos im sure you and old friend will naturally drift apart. specially when her preppy friends start asking "why you hang out with that emo" Lol
2006-12-15 11:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by ♠ JƏSSƏ'S GiRL ♠ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make some friends
2006-12-15 10:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by cassandra c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so u dnt like her n u dnt wanna b her m8t but u dnt wanna be a loner well to tell u the truth if u dnt like some1 4 who they r then u shouldnt of made m8s wiv her in the first place
2006-12-15 10:19:37 · answer #8 · answered by P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about stop being childish and learn how to make friends.
2006-12-15 10:16:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life of your own.
2006-12-15 10:16:46 · answer #10 · answered by CuriousMishawaka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋