Hey ppl!!! i need help...i just got a phone call from my best friends husband who sat on her pet cockatoo.She kicked him out the house ...he wants me to phone or pop in to talk some sense into her.just some background, they have been trying to fall pregnant for two years now...bob(the bird) was like a child to her.please help QUICK!!
2006-12-15 02:06:29 · 15 answers · asked by FRogGiE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thats the funniest thing i ever heard
2006-12-15 02:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
She needs therapy--but in the mean time, tell her to calm down, and think about the situation, she is being irrational. She sounds like she is blaming her husband for the lack of reproduction, and that is not fair--it takes two to tango and the absence is on both parties. Make sure she realizes that she is being over the top! A bird is a bird, a husband is till death they part--maybe you shouldn't tell her that she might make that part a reality lol!
2006-12-15 10:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by Austins Mom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Rule number 1, never EVER get involved in other people's marriage/partner disputes. You will NEVER wind up winning anything from it. Let them be adults and resolve their problems themselves. If they are undergoing fertility treatments though, you might want to point out to the husband that some of the drugs make women VERY emotional, and at times very irrational.
2006-12-15 10:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boy! he's in touble! he's goin gto have to somehow make her feel better about the whole thing! like i talking about extreme a** kissing! i'm talking the best pampering a guy can give! day spas vacation and yes another pet! she will be upset and not willing for any of these things but after she sees and honest try she will be okay . .and so won't he
2006-12-15 10:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by tluckie313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o man thats a tough situatuin right there.. have atalk to her hey (best friends name) whats more important to you your pet kid or the love of your life? hmmm. lets think a moment here.. but tell her that he called worried wanted to come back and appologize and make things right.. tell her to think that he is TRYING to make a family and didnt mean to kill your pet bird... hes not your 'child' hes justa pet.. they come and go... but your husband will laways be there,,,
can't put it in any other way. try to make it sound more ... better.
but thats all the advice i can think of.. tell the husband i said good luck.
2006-12-15 10:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow bad situation to be in!!!! first go to your friend and acknowledge her pain. let her know how much you care and she has a right to feel bad. but then remind her just what she is really loosing if she can't get get over this. remind her how much she must love this guy and the life she will miss out on if she can't forgive him. probably she just had one those blow up moments that will blow over and she will take him back on her own, but let her know that their relationship is so much more important than a grudge and she really doesn't want to give that up!!! GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-12-15 10:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to relax and think things over because she kicked him out for a pretty stupid reason.
2006-12-15 10:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by Manny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just upset , im sure she will cool off after she realizes that she is acting alittle childish. But I wouldn't get involved. let them deal with it. maybe just call and see if she brings it up to you and you can say something .
2006-12-15 10:12:11 · answer #8 · answered by ♠ JƏSSƏ'S GiRL ♠ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go tell her that you're sure it was an accident, and not intentional. Reassure her that he loves her and would never hurt her on purpose! express his sorrow and apology. although he should really be the one doing this!
2006-12-15 10:09:34 · answer #9 · answered by should be working 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. They should be mature enough to handle this...hopfully if they were trying to have a baby.
2006-12-15 10:09:33 · answer #10 · answered by father of 4 husband of 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get over it. things happen.
Tell her I have two of them if she wants
one she can have one.
It is not the end of the world.
PLEASE.
2006-12-15 10:25:26 · answer #11 · answered by popo dean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋