My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost 6 months now. She's 14 and I just turned 15. Were starting to get sexual but we haven't had sex. We think we should slow down and wait a little longer. But, every time we're together we just can't resist. So is there anything y'all can say for advice? Thank you
2006-12-15 01:14:43 · 30 answers · asked by Marco S 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
don't put yourself in situations where you could end up having sex. go on dates in public places or with groups of friends. you're very very smart for realizing that it would be a bad idea to have sex, so trust that instinct and protect yourself from your hormones. just don't be alone with her anywhere that you might have sex at.
2006-12-15 01:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by Eowyn 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
14 and 15 is way too young in my opinion. If you are absolutlly sure that you two want to do this then you both need to speak to someone about getting you some condoms and her birth control. If you cant bring yourself to get the protection then your just not ready. Plus 6 months isnt as long as it seems right now. And it sounds like your having doubts. Wouldnt you both rather wait till you didnt have any doubts? It will be a lot better of a situation and more comfortable if ou both dont have doubts.
2006-12-15 13:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by 0111450 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are leaning toward waiting and you aren't ready yet. I think that is a great plan!! Not only do you have pregnancy to worry about but there is also sexually transmitted diseases-not only HIV but herpes which you will always have, genital warts, etc. Have fun don't complicate or even ruin your life right now. If you do decide you are going to or you are pressured and you give in use a condom every time! At least when you are broke up a few years from now you won't be looking back perhaps with regrets that you may be living with herpes for example. Good luck! Stay strong-girls that are worthwhile appreciate your thinking!
2006-12-15 03:22:45 · answer #3 · answered by surfer1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im happy to hear u are both so happy but i do think u should slow down u are both still really young and sex isnt something to be taken lightly u should do it when u are both of age and are commited to each other the first time u always remember so u dont want to regret it. i done it for the first time at 15 and hated it and i really regretted it i wish i had waited for someone special who i really loved. u sound quite mature so i know u will make the right decision i hope u 2 are very happy together good luck
2006-12-15 01:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't spend a lot of time alone in compromising situations, i.e. in a bedroom, a car. The temptation will be there. You also both have to be committed to not having sex. If one wants it and the other doesn't, it will affect your relationship and may even end it. Try to go on group dates and also to the movies... Any place public.
2006-12-15 02:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Natural feelings but you're too young to act upon them. I applaud you both for resisting. Pregnancy is a very real possibility. This possibility would turn your world upside down. Continue to resist but if not be responsible and use protection. Be aware however, you can still have a pregnancy if with condom use.
2006-12-15 01:20:00 · answer #6 · answered by father of 4 husband of 1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready for the responsibility of a child then wait. If that thought isn't scary then how about thinking of different ways (with your girlfriend) on how you are going to tell your parents she is pregnant? I think if you both think about these things then you will both cool off quite a bit. Good luck
2006-12-15 01:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to do other things to occupy your time, like going to the movies, the mall, and when you guys are alone try not to get too heavy into the sexual foreplay, in other words kiss, hug but try not to go further for the time being, you are both very young, wait a little longer, no harm will come to either one of you....There's plenty of time for you to get there, so enjoy doing things together,
go hiking, biking, skating keep busy and a little less kissing, for now, and you will be okay.....Good Luck
2006-12-15 01:20:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude all i can recommend is to wait a little longer. If you guys are planning to have sex, use protection. Go to a health center and buy it. But i think if you guys are really in love u should wait!
2006-12-15 03:24:54 · answer #9 · answered by Sergio G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of you are young and in love and there is nothing wrong with that but you should wait. you don't want to end up making a mistake that you will regret. think of it this way, what if she was to get pregnant? are you ready to be parents? you two are still kids your self. well teenagers. think about bringing another life into this world. would you be able to take care of a baby?
2006-12-15 04:02:45 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the answers that say to hang out in public, in groups etc. You already know you are unable to resist, so make it impossible for you to actually go through with it. And REMEMBER- if you abstain from sex now, you will have NOTHING to REGRET later. Believe me neither one of you will regret waiting.
2006-12-15 01:23:43 · answer #11 · answered by rottymom02 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋