I was just curious about masturbationg. I am a young male that is 21 years old and I know a lot of pretty girls at my college but for some reason I am paranoid about masturbating to them because I see them so often and am afraid I will feel weird around them. Some of them have boyfriends and some are just friends. No real prospects right now with these girls. So instead I tend to masturbate a lot to women like Britney Spears, Katie Holmes, Camilla Belle, Rachel McAdams, Jessica Biel etc... Girls I know I have no shot with and dont know me. Is this better to do or does it really matter? Will I feel any different either way?
I guess part of the sexual fantasies is treating the women as a sex object. Maybe I dont want to offend. I usually picture these women wearing a short skirt with no panties on bending over. I have a hard time doing that thinking about a friend. I do have a friend Jackie who I am tempted to masturbate about but still am wondering if I will regret it. Will I?
2006-12-15 01:11:18 · 6 answers · asked by Kam187 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Either way is fine.........Just beat your meat !!!!
2006-12-15 01:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by benndeb8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, why masturbate about them? Go find a real girl and screw the heck out of her.
But if you can't do that, go ahead and jack off about anyone. They'll never know. Unless you tell them.
2006-12-15 11:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most men masturbate to thoughts of women they know AND women they don't. It's perfectly normal, and there's absolutely no need to feel any kind of guilt about it. What you are feeling totally normal, though, and many other guys also feel weird or guilty about fantasizing about women with whom they are in constant contact. It is a normal part of being a guy, however, and most women DO learn to understand this.
Do what feels right to you, but just remember to keep your fantasies between you and the bedsheets.
2006-12-15 09:15:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
You are 21 and surrounded by pretty girls at your college, and you are concerned about masturbating "to them" as opposed to masturbating to photos of famous females you won't meet????
What a waste of time!
Quit masturbating, get out of you dorm room or apartment, and go out and meet some of the pretty girls at your school. Start interacting with real women and get a girlfriend. Then, you won't need to masturbate or you can do it "with" a real woman instead of to a photo or mental picture of someone you will never meet.
2006-12-15 09:19:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 3⤋
I'm not quite sure why you are telling us this?
2006-12-15 09:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
As long as they're not married it's fine.
2006-12-15 09:21:36 · answer #6 · answered by Put_ya_mitts_up 4 · 1⤊ 4⤋