The moment I was born, the doctor said that my life is short assuring my parents that I might live for 20 to 30 years.
I got hit by a car when I was 3 years old.
I went in a state of comma for 6 months when I was 8 years old.
The dog given to me by my special friend that's been with me for 10 years got shot on the road.
My grandmother died when I was 12 years old.
My bestfriend (girl) was raped and battered to death last two years ago.
My family is falling apart.
I tried 8 suicidal attempts resulting to 3 confinement at different hospitals and 5 second thoughts.
There are thousands of freakin things I want to say why I say my life is a piece of **** but that's all I can say for now.
Now tell me! Is my life miserable???
2006-12-15 00:50:52 · 27 answers · asked by Jayhze 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No matter how life gets, there is NO GOOD reason for suicide. It is an unforgivable sin, and it also hurts more people than just you! My uncle recently commited suicide and as a result it made people wonder what they could have done different, or what they did wrong. We all miss him very very much! We love him, yet we hate him for putting us through the H*** of missing him and battering ourselves trying to figure out just why he did it. He had a family that supported him, many ppl who love him. Lots of friends, a home, a job. We all have our ups and downs in life, but there is no reason to harm ourselves, and others as a result! Life is really what you make of it. If you want a good life, you will have. If you dont.. then I doubt you will. God gave you the gift of life, let him decide when the time is right. Everything happens for a reason! Although we may never understand and always wonder why, there is ALWAYS a reason!!
2006-12-15 04:25:09 · answer #1 · answered by jm_radi2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like your life, I believe you should be entitled to the freedom of ending it when you like. However, suicide is unfortunately not an acceptable means of ending ones sorrow. People do not advocate taking ones own life so please consider your family and how they'll have to deal with your death if you did end your suffering.
Personally, if you are this upset I might suggest a support group or a counselor. Seriously give it a try. Make great attempts to find the joy that must exist somewhere burried beneath your damaged surface.
In every individual life we have great losses. Had you not valued and loved your grandmother, her death when you were 12 would not have been an issue. Be thankful for her presence in your life for those 12 years. Think of her and how happy she made you. Be grateful for what you had and what you have instead of brooding over what is terrible.
You CAN help yourself get better. Every day, try to do or say 3 nice things to other people. You will be amazed at how that small act can make you, yourself, feel better.
Don't give up!
2006-12-15 00:58:50 · answer #2 · answered by ssssss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure most people would say you have been through some very unfortunate things, but it doesn't mean that your life isn't worth living.
Trust me, I've been through hell and back a few times over, but you learn to deal. It makes you so much stronger. Trials and tribulation are a part of life.
Now I'm not gonna shoot the bull and tell you that you haven't been through anything because that would be totally untrue.
Sweetie,
You need to find the good in you. I know its there. Don't you realize that out of everything you've been through, you're still here. That speaks volumes. Your supposed to be here. Maybe the things you're going through can benefit someone else, talk to someone, PLEASE (if it will help, you can e-mail me)
If you say your life is a piece of ****, you gotta find a way to turn it around, AND SUICIDE IS NOT THE ANSWER!!!!
I hope this helps and I will be praying for you.
2006-12-15 01:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by torilynn :) 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nobody's life is miserable enough to commit suicide.
keep going, it could all turn around at any time!
God made you for a reason, and only he can decide when it's over for you.
Keep getting therapy and try to be around people who love you.
all people have disappointment, setbacks, and yes, even tragedies sometime in their lives.
while you had a lot of heartache, it is not a good reason to commit suicide. As I said before there are no good reasons!
There are other people out there for you. You lost a grandmother and a best friend. But realize that you will meet others. Even if your family is not supportive, or is falling apart, you still have the family members who are living. Try to be closer to them.
I am sorry to hear of your problems, but please don't give up.
2006-12-15 02:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by kristin c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you certainly have had your share of sorrow; but there is never a "good excuse" for suicide. You have no way of telling what lies ahead for you; you can be pessimistic and assume that you will continue to have bad things happen to you; OR you can look forward to the very strong possibility that circumstances can change in a moment and your life will be full of joy and rewards. You can also direct your depressed thoughts in a direction that will help others know that there is someone who cares deeply about them and is there to help; get involved in a support group, give and take from it. There is nothing as powerful as finding out that others have suffered more and want help to go forward. Best wishes.
2006-12-15 01:01:29 · answer #5 · answered by nan4six 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea that does suck very much hun. Unfortunately I hate to be the realist but in your state other people's advice won't work very well. It is very difficult to change your emotions based on someone else's persepective. I could say you need to try to find something to hope for... Also that if you have 8 attempts and obviously none were successful or near successful, its just not your time to go.... I do believe in saying everything thats on your mind though.... it does help regardless of your situation... i believe you need to find something that you enjoy like art or hobby keep moving because thoughts can sneak in at any moment. I think it could help if you find a way to express or use your emotions. It doesn't have to be for some fufu do-gooder cause (unless thats what you want)... sometimes art helps whether you skilled or not... it really helps you focus....
Any how I doubt any of our answers will make your life any better but at least you can read our thoughts on your situation.... anything you wanna say? let me know.....
2006-12-15 01:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by crystal j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your being selfish! Stop and look at what your parents have been through with you! Look what yu have put them through!
Suicide isn't a pretty thing dear. You need to go out and find your "Zen". Honestly! Your making it seem as though there's no reason for you being here, but there is, or you wouldn't still be here!!
We've all lost a pet now and then. And grandparents, if not, will!
Why would what happened to your girlfriend want you to kill yourself do any good. It's when you should stand up like a man, and her her through it and be there for her and even attend couseling with her.
You need counseling yourself.
Try looking within. Find your own talents, then seek life with those talents and come alive, not dead!!
Get off the potty and do something worthwhile!!
2006-12-15 01:00:15 · answer #7 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was raped, sexually and mentally abused as a child (gave birth to a child at 13 after being molested), all 4 of my grandparents are dead (I was bedside when my grandmother went), Ive had a few close friends die very early in life, one at 16 and one at 19. And some of my family sucks too. But there is also good in life, we just have to focus on it and believe there is better out there for us. To live and focus on the negative will only bring us down and let it win. Be better than all that.
2006-12-15 00:59:44 · answer #8 · answered by JC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, your life is not miserable. Im sorry for what youve been through. Its been tough, but you have always overcome it. Please dont even think about suicide. There are people who have it 10X worse than you and they deal with it. You only get one life, and its what you make it. Once youre gone, youre gone. After all youre events, you shouldnt get weaker, you should get stronger. I dont know how old you are, but either way, you have a bright future in front of you, dont think you dont. Maybe tomorrow you would win the lottery, or something amazing might happen- you never know. There are many people out there struggling TO live, you taking your own life would be very selfish. Please just think about it.
2006-12-15 01:02:27 · answer #9 · answered by Ash_082 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That ain't sh*t my friend!!!
I lost my dad when I was 9
I lost my mother when I was 19
I've lost 5 friends of mine in the last 10 years, I'm 37.
My wife is dying of cancer, and I have 6 kids, 3 are step.
I haven't been able to get a job for a year.
And why am I still hear? Cause I refuse to give up and take the easy way out. Suicide has never even crossed my mind!!
2006-12-15 01:01:36 · answer #10 · answered by Gasman 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋