Why does it seem that mexican men feel they have to CHEAT and lie 2 your face about it as if nothing happened..all the time and mess with ninas(lil gurls) like 14 -15 yrs old just 2 get them pregnant?..Its as if they were raised like this and its normal for them. Why come 2 america and get an americana to cook,clean and wash your clothes but they dont say thanks or ever admit they were wrong or sorry? I really don't understand why they do this but its seems their whole life is based on lies,Being borrachos, and cheating but they are so quick to cross thier hearts for santa maria as if that makes them the most holiest person..i've been with my bf for 2 yrs and he's from altamirano guerrero he's been good 2 me but it seems recently he's diff..i think he's up 2 "no good" but i can't prove it.I cant say he's using me because he comes out of his pocket for everything.By the way im half cuban so don't say anything about rasist towards the latinos. IWhy do they do & say stupid s***.
2006-12-15 00:40:49 · 17 answers · asked by LillyAngel 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Little One,
I am Spanish and there is something that I learn a long time ago, from my Grandfather, my father, etc. Never marry a Hispanic man because they will break your heart. My Grandfather swears that Latino men couldn't be faithful to one female if their lives depended on it. Him included! They are hot blooded and single minded. They think only of themselves and have little time for that one special person in their lives. Oh, that doesn't mean they don't want to keep up appearances, because God forbid, they have family. For whatever that's worth! I watched the men in our family break the hearts of just about every woman they ever knew by doing all the things you described. It isn't until they reach a certain age that they slow down and stop the philandering. But by that time they have had three wives and 8.6 children.
Don't put up with it, little one, you don't have to!
There are a few more choice words I would like to use but, alas, I am a Lady and will not sink to their level. One thing I can say is until woman begin sticking up for their right to be in a monogamous relationship it will continue!
Good Luck
Blessed Be
2006-12-15 01:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by wonderingmom 3 · 3⤊ 5⤋
Honey most men are like that not just Mexican men,there bichos are hungry all the time and they dint stop to see a great woman who love them unconditional and is willing to walk through fire with them ,there selfish and have no respect for there selves or the seeds they spread around to anyone willing to receive, Your a good woman ready to give them the world just say strong and don't let bad love get in the way of your life and all the love you have to give.
2006-12-15 00:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by stargazer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have to stop generalizing and bashing on certain groups of people regarding the cheating and lying. Men and women from all walks of life do it. Right now you just happen to be dealing with Hispanics. Now-----Another thing is that I know what people say to you hurts you as far as racist remarks. But you're going to have to let that sh!t roll off your back. They're the ignorant ones. You have to learn how to ignore @ssholes like them. I think you're an intelligent person and intelligent people don't mix company with ignorant people. It just keeps your stomach in knots when you do. Try to eliviate yourself from negativiness. I personally don't be bothered with people who are not healthy for me. They're miserable and they want to see others the same way. You've heard the cliche "Misery Loves Company!" Get away from those types. There are so many nice, positive, strong roll models in the world. You just have to find those people. Sometimes you makes friends or associates in banks, supermarkets, at a gathering. I met a nice woman one time in the Unemployment Office over 20 years ago, and she and I are still friend. You know just standing in line, waiting for our checks, then exchanging telephone numbers. She's half white/half black. You'd be surprise how many decent, non-racial, positive people that are out here in the world. From now on when you meet new people, listen to them when they speak, watch their body language, and if they don't have a good sense of humor, don't even waste your time. Those people who like to laugh, are the good ones. Unless there laughing at a situation that's not good. Well I'd like to continue this, however, you know I have to go to the next question. Be sweet, take care and God Bless!
2006-12-15 01:39:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
you KNOW I like my Mexican spicy! Being of indian descent, I like alot of my food, and women, spicy! When I eat mexican food, I often ask for a side of fresh, sliced jalapenos. The pickled ones are good, but it's really not spicy enough. Also, it's important to remember, that mexican "spiciness" isn't just "hotness" it's also due to spices such as Chile de Arbol, Cumin, Paprika and garlic, And, when it comes to hispanic women, they all seem spicy, from cute mexican girls, to revved up Venezuelan girls to feisty Cuban girls!
2016-05-24 19:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't u just get with a Cuban man?
2014-08-20 08:51:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two comments:
1. Rosario, you picked a loser. It doesn't matter what his heritage is--he is a loser. Just drop him, or YOU will fit right into the popular Latina stereotype of being dumb enough to stay with a guy who treats you poorly.
2. Those of you who are saying that Mexican males are poorly raised are coming across as VERY ignorant. You shouldn't use your experience with one or even a dozen people of a particular background to generalize an ENTIRE group of people. This type of reaction speaks VOLUMES about how YOU were raised!
2006-12-15 06:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by LatinaAlumna 2 · 9⤊ 0⤋
If you really do not understand this, I would advise not being so outspoken about it. My mother is adopted, so for all I know, I might be half Latino too. (Never mind the fact that I have very fair skin) If your husband is up to "No good" then I suggest you tell someone or get counseling. Good Luck!
2006-12-15 01:17:49 · answer #7 · answered by Evevumeimei 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some women just tend to choose bad men. You might be one of them. Does he have gang tattoos? Are his buddies meatheads? It will often be the case that the best men will go un-noticed.
You shouldnt generalize. Not all Mexican men are alike, and you probably just happen to like lemmings with lots of "game."
2006-12-15 00:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by Darcia 3 · 10⤊ 0⤋
is it the machismo syndrome . I feel for you. But as an Native American i have noticed this about Hispanic males.no one has the perfect man out and there will always be a give and take it depends on you how much you Will take. take heart but yourself first always.
2006-12-15 00:49:34 · answer #9 · answered by MJ 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i agree wit latinaalumna.
ur dumbass should just dump the guy, n stop groupin one mexican guy wit the rest of them. u really think that every single mexican is a cheater? thats like sayin every white person lives in a trailer or every CUBAN swims to florida illegally. u know better than that...
2006-12-15 08:30:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋