What do you do when you love your husband and everything is wonderful (the whole package except one thing) but he won't preform oral on you? Is it worth giving up on or do you stick it out. Also know that he WON"T do it at all. And you really want it.
2006-12-15 00:27:05 · 15 answers · asked by Shawn B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hell you gotta train him u let him kno what u like have you done it on him make sure ur hygiene is straight down there before you ask about that and dont rush it if he is your husband it will come trust and believe
2006-12-15 00:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by ashley p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everything is wonderful, except this one thing, count your blessings and stop worrying about it. Many men (and women) will not do oral and it is not an integral part of a marriage. You stick it out, because when you try to find "greener grass" because of one glitch, you'll be the one mowed down and end up with nothing.
2006-12-15 08:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by save_up_your_tears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide on whether your marriage is based purely on sex or other important factors first. IF you truly love him you will be willing to accept him as he is and love the PERSON rather than the sex act. However if you base your marriage and happiness on one sex act then maybe you shouldn't have gotten married in the first place. I would then suggest that you free this man from your clutches and allow him to move on to someone else who will appreciate him for who he is while you go in search of the perfect oral fornicator.
2006-12-15 08:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your marriage must have problems if you ready to throw it away because he wont go down on ya . Look make sure you are super clean down there sometimes yall think your clean but it taste funky . Try to get him to do a 69 position that way hes enjoying him self and it gives him motivation to lick your puss . If that dont work cutt him off NO blow jobs for HIMm that should change his miNd .
2006-12-15 08:37:09 · answer #4 · answered by tigerb29209 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just give it up, I mean come on if everything else is perfect which this is very hard to find in a marriage then just give it up. Its a small sacrafice to make when you have such a wonderful marriage
2006-12-15 09:02:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you be happier if he did perform oral, and everything else wasn't wonderful? Be thankful for what you DO have, and meet your own needs. If you loved him, this wouldn't be an issue.
2006-12-15 08:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know this when you married him? You have one of three choices: just let it go (doubtful), divorce/leave him, (maybe) or cheat on him (probably not a good idea). I'd get rid of him, he won't even listen to you or consider it. Nobody wants a dud in bed, AND he's selfish to your needs as well.
2006-12-15 08:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand. Same here : (
I gave it up. I asked, he declined, end of the story. I miss it very VERY much, but there are other things in our relationship that surpass this. If this is his worse defect, God bless him! and lucky me that tht's the only thing that I have to put up with.
I'm very happy and he fulfills me in every other way, so I compromised and count my blessings.
Good luck
2006-12-15 09:25:41 · answer #8 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you will do something for him if he will do that for you
maybe he wants to try anal
i think you need to find out why he wont do it. maybe he is grossed out by it or the smell bothers him. it might be easier for him to do it in the shower where the smell and messyness of it wont be so bad.
tell him how bad you love him and want him and would love for him to do this special act of love together
2006-12-15 08:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by The Weed Fairy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you perform oral sex on him--STOP!! He'll get the message. Have you asked him? Who knows, he might comply with your wishes if you sit down and talk to him.
2006-12-15 08:32:19 · answer #10 · answered by Tiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋