and still live with my wife and kids??
Also should i tell my girlfriend i am engaged??
2006-12-15 00:25:46 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why not, i saw on the news that some guy had like 24 wives.....get that extension built....
2006-12-15 00:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ya think????!!!!!!
How in all creation could you get engaged to someone and are still currently married and living with your family. And you have a girlfriend??!!
How do you keep this charade going without any of them becoming suspicious? (or are they that stupid/desperate)
So, let me guess, at one point every thing was good between you and your wife then you both started to drift apart and......(all the normal BS)
From the beginning, you should have let her know about your situation and if she was willing to deal (which she would have to be seriously desperate to do) until things cleared up then more power to her.
So you really think she's gonna stick around once she finds out?? (only if she's the world's most desperate woman- and even she wouldn't want you)
Oh, and you do realize you risk ruining the relationship you have with your kids ( assuming you still have time to be there for them with all your extra curricular activity)
Let's face it, you really shouldn't be married or have a girlfriend. You should be single, and upfront about why you are single (ie. I'm single because I love the possibility of being with any woman I chose without the burden of attachment- yes there are women who would appreciate that type of honesty) so that you can deal with whomever whenever and no one has to get hurt.
2006-12-15 00:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by torilynn :) 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You've actually messed the question up my friend - first you ask if you should tell your fiancee about the wife and kids - then you ask if you should tell your girlfriend you're engaged. Being as your girlfriend is your fiancee I think she's know this already wouldnt she ???????????
2006-12-15 00:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you should,be true to yourself,being honest is the hardest thing,it is not fair to keep on living a lie and choose, you can not keep 2 women in your life,and remember,if you leave your wife you are just going to repeat the same thing again,kids,marriage etc.
You have 2 kids together,is there really no way you can make you 2 the only real thing and no asides
2006-12-15 01:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by flavia d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously getting women is not an issue for you which I don't understand after looking at your profile... You must be hung like a horse cause your not a looker!!!! Why hide your every move to sneak around seeking three different woman??? You should be up front with all of them.. If any of them have any brians, they will dump your cheating butt and then hopefully they can move on to normal lives. Wonder what your kids think of daddy being a "He-Whore"??? Loser!
2006-12-15 00:58:19 · answer #5 · answered by tra5682000 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if one was happy with ones wife then one woulid not look for other bits ov stuff so you are trying to say your wife is crap in the sack and you need to look eles where
you need to get rid of the wife if you did love the wife then no matter what you woulid not go looking around for a nother girl
try sorting your self out first try looking at home life something is very sad if you feel you have to find a .... to ....
2006-12-15 01:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think I'll just stick to Sheryl Crow's Everyday Is A Winding Road.
2006-12-15 00:37:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can see you have been getting a lot of bad advice, don't listen to any of it! It is very clear to me that you are suffering from a condition called Multiple Personality Disorder, however you are aware of what the other two personalities are doing; your disorder has made a bit of progress, however you are still suffering w/this disorder. All of you that is all involved in this mess needs to go to a psychiatrist; who will then help to clear this mess up. That is it, my advise, go on then.
2006-12-15 02:48:37 · answer #8 · answered by coolcat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In all probability, going to have a tough and complicated life. Get back into an internal search process,if you can or get ready for 'not very good days'.
2006-12-15 00:32:47 · answer #9 · answered by braj k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her, the fiance, you are a pathetic excuse for a husband and a fiance. Where are your morals here? Actually, break up with both women, it would be the best thing that ever happened to each of them, unfortunately, you are so selfish that you are bringing innocent children into your mess, shame on you.
2006-12-15 01:13:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are crazy. Somebody is going to kick your a**. I hope they all find out because you need ciounseling and who the hell would just be someone's fiance for two years. What did she think the hold up is?
2006-12-15 00:34:40 · answer #11 · answered by Brownie_baby 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋