Ok, my 2 bestfriends told me something about this girl and her so called boyfriend so i asked my other friend if it was true. Now the ***** who this was about says i am spreading stuff about her? Why do people do this? Excatly? Is so stupid!
2006-12-15 00:12:06 · 17 answers · asked by Jordan B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i only asked one person and then the boy callled me and i told him who i heard it from and yet the girl still is like you started *rawr* and i'm like no the hell i didn't and just b/c your a whore doesn't mean i have to stoop to your level!
2006-12-15 00:23:38 · update #1
sure,,,,,,,,,,
2006-12-15 00:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by screaming frenzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible that one of the people you were talking to about this girl went back and told her that you said...? Some people love to see other people at each other's throats. It sounds to me like someone in your group may be a troublemaker. The next time you all are together and someone starts gossiping about someone either change the subject or walk away.
You could suddenly have somewhere to go...even if you really don't. The best way to avoid gossip is not to participate in it.
2006-12-15 08:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by Arleen J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have people like that everywhere. It seems that they'll never just vanish. They just keep coming back with different faces. Keep your cool and show her that you are not affected at all by her b*tchiness.
Im afraid thats the only solution to face people like her and stop asking around about someone else's private matters. Dont give them a reason to put words in your mouth.
2006-12-15 08:23:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, as you get older (I am assuming you are a teenager) you will mature and not give a damn what other people think about you. People do this to have drama in thier lives and to make themselves feel more important.
Be happy being yourself and if confronted about "spreading rumors," simply say, "I don't know what you're talking about - grow up please," and walk away. Show them that you're the mature one and they'll begin to look up to you.
2006-12-15 08:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by redslippers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sort of, you WERE spreading stuff. However, if she had not DONE the deed, there would be nothing to tell....Right??
The truth should never hurt!
I'm soooo glad that I don't have to deal with all that teeny-bopperish crap anymore!
2006-12-15 08:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man listen some one always finds an Innocent by- stander to use as an escapee, my advice is to find the culprit and make them explain their actions to everyone involved
2006-12-15 08:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by macsorleyglyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll assume you're a guy with a name like Jordan
gossip lures the patsy and you were it
next time...stop the buck
2006-12-15 08:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by mommyseldest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a life if you want to spread info tell one person
2006-12-15 08:30:26 · answer #8 · answered by Eunice M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just say you didn't start it, you heard it from somone else already, and you don't really care anyway.
2006-12-15 08:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell is with the other answers?
Freaking psycho!!
2006-12-15 08:16:08 · answer #10 · answered by Cheyenne M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because people are jerks and they like to talk crap about other people.
2006-12-15 08:15:32 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋