I have booked a skiing holiday with my mates but didn't book for her and the kids because i know how much she loves having christmas with them.
We fly out on the 24th of December.
Should i tell her now or suprise her on christmas Eve..
PS I know you will think what a thoughtful husband but i was
only thinking of her ..
2006-12-15 00:03:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dont tell her, put a note under the tree with a red ribbon on it!
"hunny, i am gone with the boys see you after the holidays"
p.s. i took the credit card too so you dont have to worry about me not having enough money for my strippers.
love you and merry christmas
2006-12-15 00:12:08 · answer #1 · answered by crazylady1193 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should prepare her ahead of time, therefore she can be mad at you all the way through Christmas. You were not thinking of her. How do you know that she is not tired of spending every Christmas with her parents, maybe she would have like to go on the ski trip. You need to change your plans and include her or you are going to have a sorry new year.
2006-12-15 00:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is it that you think you were only thinking of her when you booked a skiing holiday for yourself and friends? Christmas is supposed to be all about family and sharing time and memories with them, especially for the kids, and you're not going to be there?!? If you can, I'd try to switch the departure date to the day after Christmas, if not for your wife, then for the kids, and see if they want to go with you.
I see nothing but trouble in this for you, "thoughtful husband". You really aren't. More like selfish "I'm gonna do what I want to and screw the consequences" husband.
2006-12-15 00:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-05 08:31:44 · answer #4 · answered by rotanelli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were only thinking of yourself. If you dont want to spend Christmas with your wife and kids. YOu have a big problem .
2006-12-15 00:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by Rugir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that so she can have a break from you? the poor woman deserves it. They should give her an award, maybe the Queen can put your wife on the new years honors roll for an award..for putting up with you!
2006-12-15 02:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by Mama~peapod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just to be on the safe side i wouldnt tell her at all.just leave her a note or something just before you go.that way she wont ruin your holiday with a black eye.and by the way i think thats so very thoughtful of you,what a lovely husband.your wife is one lucky lady.
2006-12-15 00:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good on ya dude. Maybe she'll get the message. Of course you may not have to worry about it next Christmas. But hey, it's your life.
2006-12-15 00:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by Tater 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol,i hope your couch is comfy and your mates are snuggly because you are in trouble unless you cancel. oh diamonds-rubys-emeralds might save you but, i doubt it.
2006-12-15 02:21:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you book a return flight too?
2006-12-15 00:18:20 · answer #10 · answered by belgium 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋