i was being really nice to this one girl and then she goes and says "your only being nice becuase you want to have sex with me huh" which isnt true at all i actually enjoy her company whats up with that?
2006-12-14 23:33:43 · 16 answers · asked by chris l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because some guys are actually like that, They f*ck about and hurt girls and give the rest of you a bad name. If youre a descent guy then dont worry about it, girls will realise after a while that youre genuinly nice and they'll love you for it.
2006-12-14 23:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most women think this because there aren't many men out there that are being nice for the reasons you stated. The majority of men are players and are just being nice to so that they can get us in bed. We usually put our guard up if we have seen or heard of the guy playing another girl. It's hard to trust someone who played another girl! I don't know you or anything- but if you aren't normally "nice" to other women than maybe that's why she thinks that.
2006-12-14 23:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by Tammy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because SOME men have screwed up and made SOME women believe that. It's sexism and she wouldn't be worth your courtesy anyway, don't bother. Not all MEN are the same, not all WOMEN are the same, people need to realize that.
2006-12-14 23:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by zelin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
chris, its because you have seriously messed up guys ruining it for seriously sincere guys like you. women are like puppy dogs... the first time you spank it, it will flinch for the rest of its life. a dog never beaten before doesnt flinch. so we tend to be like that, we have our guards on 24/7 because we run into some wolves wearing sheep skin one too many times...
2006-12-14 23:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by Reb Da Rebel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...that is the result of her being hurt many times by men that were only looking for sexual gratification...and from her not being to recognize it....it doesn't have anything to do with you personally but unfortunately many of us have to deal with the messes of people before us...Soooo...this is for the many that go before us "STRAIGHTEN UP...YOU'RE MAKING MY LIFE SUCK!"...ok...now....again.......this has nothing to do with you. Just be patient.
2006-12-14 23:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well
shes a girl.
a girl automatically assumes the worst.
be good to her spend time with her and lay off the sex for a bit. like tell her if she wants you don't have to have sex. she'll beg for it in the end.
2006-12-14 23:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well most men do think with their other "head"... But seriously, if you really want her to feel secure with you, do something special for her. But if you expect to get something out of it, then your time spent will not be worth it.
2006-12-14 23:36:55 · answer #7 · answered by Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because we began to think that's the only thing a man wants.
2006-12-14 23:43:08 · answer #8 · answered by Between Times 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well she must hav met persons tryin to hit on her quite often. talk it out with her. if u feel shy thn while u talk with her try not to speak things which may lead to doubtin u again. if wat u say is true thn the misunderstandin will surely clear
2006-12-14 23:56:11 · answer #9 · answered by swap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That pretty much IS the only reason, isn't it? Honestly?
2006-12-15 00:04:31 · answer #10 · answered by cityofchampions93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋