2006-12-14 22:59:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Your child is born with it's sexual identity. You can't stop it, but you can frustrate your child by doing so. Love and care makes a good person. Being good has nothing to do with you sexual preferences.
2006-12-14 23:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but children should never be judged or labelled, especially by society's idea of sexual preference. Many kids experiment with different feelings, ideas and with their peers. This is normal. For older kids (over 14) this can still be difficult, as there is much change going on, but generally a parent generally just seems to "know" their child is this way inclined. Gut instinct. Best not to make a big deal of it and let nature take it's course, as could affect the growing person emotionally, in a negative way. Listen, be supportive, be open and good luck !!
2006-12-14 23:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by square_dotzz 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is accept him just the way he is....
It's his total freedom to be who he really is...
You are just his biological parent, period. You have no right at all to forbid him if he is a gay.
You cannot forbid his sexuality as a gay at all. Like no one cannot forbid you being a straight.
You really cannot stop him for being gay. How can you do that?
You may try hardly for that, but he will still and always be gay.
The sun will always be coming in the morning, you cannot forbid the sun for not coming... Can you?
So it's the same to your kid...
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2006-12-14 23:46:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to know if you're kid is gay, and if he/she is, you can't stop it... kids need to be able to live the way they want to, and you just need to accept them and support them
2006-12-15 02:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by D-Monster 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the best way is to ask him and if he is and you try to stop it the you wont have to worry about it for long for he will grow to hate you and go out there and live his own life instead of letting you live his life for him. Love him for who he is not who you want him to be.
2006-12-15 02:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A) Unless it's obvious, there's no real signs. Many gay children had no signs of their sexuality until puberty.
B) Newsflash: You can't prevent homosexuality.
2006-12-14 23:13:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There may be early signs but the best way is to watch and wait. You cant stop it so dont try to stifle it. If its your kid you should love them regardless.
2006-12-14 23:07:54 · answer #7 · answered by david s 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You ask him or her when they are old enough.
And you can't stop it, no more than you can "stop" the color of their eyes or the size of their feet.
Learn to deal with reality.
2006-12-14 23:33:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have to wait until he is older to know for sure. There is no way to stop it. Too bad.
2006-12-14 23:03:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
You don't. Now stop being so ignorant!
2006-12-18 13:33:17 · answer #10 · answered by Miakoda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋