i have this very close friend. we shared a lot of memories, jammings and everything. I consider her my best friend.It really goes like this.......
we're 5 friends(we call ourselves "5 star friends").Friend no.1 thinks that.... I have no care for her, I just cared for the group but not her. Friend no.2 gives me advises.Actually FN2(friend no.2) is the one who told me about the feelings of FN1(friend no.1).FN1 wanted to end our frienship, but I don't want her to let go...I mean we shared a lot of moments and that's what she wants to do, just QUIT!!!It's not a easy thing to do.... I wanted to settle this down ...talk to her personally...but she walks away from me...she hates me....She never even look at me...Or even go near me....She avoids me....so how can I say sorry to her...It's a good thing 2 know that FR2 helps me but I should be the one who would settle this......I wanted it to settle the way I wanted it to be.....We're going to be friends again....
2006-12-14 22:40:12 · 8 answers · asked by dynn_er c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Communication is the key. Talk directly to the friend who appears to have a problem with you. Keep the other one out of it. A part of friendship is responsibility. If it means anything to you, take the initiative and talk to your friend. Perhaps she is under the impression that you did or said something about her. Perhaps someone who is jealous of your friendship is doing something behind the scenes. I don't know how old you are, but you sound like you're a teenager.
Personalities change. It could be that she doesn't like the way you do things anymore. Communicate with her and find out from her how she feels and ask her to tell you why. Maybe she's going through something private she is afraid to discuss. Keep the others out of your conversation. It's between only the two of you. If she still wants to end the friendship, let her go. Tell her you'll miss her and move on. If she changes her mind, she'll come back.
2006-12-14 23:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is really ur best friend then she is going to understand what u've done .Try to tell her directly & tell her the truth.Don't decorate ur words.Tell her what u feel. Send her an apology SMS or a nice e-card.Bring her something she likes.Try to promise her that u r not going to repeat what u've done again.If the problem is that she thinks that u don't care then show her that u care.It's that simple.Good luck! with her!!!Yes u r gonna be friends with her again.
2006-12-14 23:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by ..pAniC aTTacks.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the initiative to call her or go see her and tell her that it's important to you for the 2 of you to work through your differences and be friends again. Tell her that you are so sorry for whatever you did to upset her or to lose her trust, but that you are commited to being friends again if she would please forgive you. You are going to have to put your pride aside and be humble with her if you want her back as a friend.
2006-12-14 23:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds very complicated!
i would think about writing a heartfelt letter,try to be as honest as possible,dont make the letter all about you,explain why you are sorry,dont just say it .explain how much you miss her etc ..
i would type the envelope so the letter doesnt go straight in the bin when she recognises your handwriting.
give her a day or so to read it ,then send s sms text with just sorry in it.hopefully she will respond ...
hope it works out :)
2006-12-14 22:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try a bit . but if she is adamant then i would advise to part ur ways , try to clear the misunderstanding. understanding and compromise from both the sides is a sign of good friendship. friendship cannot be one sided
2006-12-14 23:05:20 · answer #5 · answered by swap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy one chocolate & take a flower , go to her and simply say sorry for your earlier behaviour & promise not to repeat . I am sure she will love it and forgive you .
2006-12-14 22:48:07 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never apologies----------wrong sort or people take a mean advantage of it and right sort of people don't need it.------------------------------so if he or she is your best friend he/she understand every thing.
2006-12-14 23:01:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say I'm sorry I was wrong
2006-12-14 22:44:01 · answer #8 · answered by autumnbrookblue 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋