a female colleague commented that you have a JLO's butt, which is a compliment. then another girl who heard that commented replied saying your butt looked like her back of her cooking wok.some people just have issues when you receive compliments so they had to make snide remarks.but how would you answer her (or any negative remarks made against you) but remains a higher stature at the same time? (btw,this girl is skinny like a stick insect and 'flat').
2006-12-14 22:31:35 · 12 answers · asked by pristine 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Don't entertain them. . Just say, thanks for making it obvious that you stare at my butt long enough to make such a comparison. She'll probably feel stupid. When you get upset, they know they've gotten to you.
2006-12-15 00:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_treat101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that turning a snide remark into a joke and laugh is much better then adding fuel to the fire. Then following it up with a nice compliment to the person that smarted off at me. When you can make fun of yourself it takes the fun away from snappy people.
If someone said I had JLO's butt I would have replied that I felt sorry for JLO and the person that then said your butt looked like her wok would not have opened her mouth.
2006-12-15 00:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd laugh. what dose her opinion mean anyway? she had to find a way to put you down to make herself feel better. BTW you couldn't get out of your question with out making a snide remark about her. fix yourself before you try to fix someone else.
2006-12-14 22:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by autumnbrookblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer care who's ideal contributor i do no longer even care approximately factors why a number of those fuss? you're slightly stiff whilst it includes those issues..... loosen up in the experience that your incorrect renowned it compliment the different guy it's going to make you greater familiar.
2016-10-05 08:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like the way your butt looks, then don't pay attention to the woman who doesn't. She's jealous. I wouldn't waste my time responding to her skinny ***.
2006-12-15 00:15:00 · answer #5 · answered by FL LMT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could have smiled a bit( like u should do at child when he/she warns u to kill or anything)n simply said something in a careless tone like...''whatever'', or ''huh'' ,''small world,small people''...u got my point?
2006-12-14 23:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by kawal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at her disdainfully that she has to stoop so low, and then look back to your friend with an "anyway..."
2006-12-15 19:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're just hatin'.... and jealous that they didn't get the compliment themselves.
2006-12-15 00:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say y u bitches talkin i b hater walkin the only reason she said that is because she wants wat u got but she cant have it just think haterz make u famous by talkin sh*t and sayin stuff bout u i got plenty of haterz so i know wat y talkin bout then when u c dat b*t*h by her self f*c* here s*i* up well holla
2006-12-15 02:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by j_breezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, Thank you. I appreciate your helping me to make myself better.
2006-12-14 22:39:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋