The guy I married is catman. sneacky and greety he wants everything from me like material things but no love from him at all it.in three years he touches me only five times every time he got excuses is tired from his job. This mother f,,,playing in wrong groubd plane because i'm not let him destroyde our life my baby and I we are make sure he'll be punish for that....
2006-12-14 21:54:28 · 17 answers · asked by Lulu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good luck with that!
2006-12-14 21:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First I'd learn how to write COMPLETE sentences so people can UNDERSTAND you. Then I'd work on the spelling thing. That aside, based upon the info you've volunteered and the phrasing of your question I would just say leave him. It doesn't sound like you want to work it out. There's cause and effect and It takes two to tango so if you don't want to look at what you BOTH need to own then there is no point in even trying.
You can leave him or workout out. But trying to figure out ways to punish him only makes you an ugly person and might get you into trouble resulting in you getting divorced AND losing your kid.
Karma has a way of working things out. You get your act together and move on if that's what you want. But don't give someone else the power to make you ugly by causing you to think hateful thoughts and plan evil deeds. Because in the end you are only hurting YOU.
It didn't work out plain and simple. Find someone it WILL work out with.
2006-12-15 08:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by Cybrocupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you marry him in the first place? Why did you stay this long? Maybe you should accept that you can only control yourself and maybe you've learned a valuable lesson. Now you should move on.
Punish him? How is that going to help YOU? Revenge does not help you, it just makes you feel better temporarily. Why don't you help yourself by finding someone new. This time, maybe you could respect yourself a little bit also by not being with someone you are unhappy with.
2006-12-15 06:07:01 · answer #3 · answered by jamisojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has treated you that badly it is time for a divorce. As far as getting even the courts will make him suffer by paying and outrageous amount of support. You deserve someone who will love you and treat you with respect. It is time to move on and make a happier life without him. Get a lawyer and divorce him don't take his crap any more. By doing this you will show him he can not mess with you any more. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-15 06:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by victoria_bell_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems you have already made a decision. You are going to torture him and make him pay. I can see the two of you have a very loving relationship. He has been cheating on you, why would you stay with someone who is not treating you with love and respect? Leave and move on, the pain will go away. And God will send you someone who loves and respects you. God bless****
2006-12-15 05:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make him show that u know it and dont care and pretend ur cheating on him too
if he there is anythin left in ur relation then hell leave all and ask for forgiveness and if not then only split up is the way out u cannot spoil the rest of ur life like that
no marriage counceller can tell u better than that
2006-12-15 05:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by aakash b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
best to just move on, in spite of his cheating, in spite that u want to see him suffer. all that will mean is a terribble time in your marriage. best to just move on and find someone else, where there isn't all this unhappiness. why live like that, why stay with a man like that? just so u can get even, will destroy u as well in the process.
2006-12-15 12:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask myself how I failed him... what it is that he has to go to such lengths to get.
It's a major pain in the butt to involve yourself in another person's life, so what was it that made him do so? I mean he has to put up with yet another person's whims, so it must have been a pretty significant thing that you are giving him.
2006-12-15 09:31:48 · answer #8 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just pack my bags and leave. I would spend my energy on building a new life instead of him clearly that he is not worthy of my time and energy. good luck
2006-12-15 06:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't punish him just leave. I feel your pain. I know what you are going through.. just move on
2006-12-15 06:01:38 · answer #10 · answered by robtiger2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to be very tactful , careful if u have to stay with him see u have a baby if he is not worth to be staying with him he is creating troubles for u then it is better to get divorce
2006-12-15 06:10:28 · answer #11 · answered by dilu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋