I have a strong desire to quit it, but the feeling comes back to me again and again. Please help.
2006-12-14 21:49:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You have to look at why you want to quit. Is society, or people in your circle critical? If you are wanting to quit to please others, you will not be able to (or you'll quit, but always feel the tug to it). If you want to quit for you alone, because you don't like it, that's different. I'd say, if you look closely and find that you are trying to quit to please somebody else, or because of society...well screw that! There's nothing wrong with crossdressing. It's completely harmless, and can be quite enchanting. Know there are people out there who will love and accept you, and above all else, please remain true to yourself.
2006-12-14 22:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by Arlene06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look pal I know how you feel, I have probably been going for about 8 years i kept it secret and it got out. About a year ago I stopped and threw everythign away. After two months i got urges again and its not something that you can just ignore. I really do feel for you. At some point you will realise that this is a part of you however hard you fight it, it will try and come back into your life. I do it again now occasionly. A good coping strategy I found was to do somethign else instead for example hit the gym, by focussing on something else it helps get it all out of your mind. I hope I have been of some help.
2006-12-16 09:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by weirdlittlebritain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to quit? Crossdressing is a part of your psyche. Something that you cannot do without. It is like asking a pianist not to play the piano. You can purge a million times, but the drive is too strong, like breathing.
I cannot see any logical reason to stop crossdressing, regardless what small minded bigots may say.
2006-12-16 08:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to quit? If you have been doing it for 10 years, it must give you some pleasure. I don't see anything wrong with it if it makes you happy and isn't hurting anyone else. Don't be ashamed or embarrassed.
2006-12-14 21:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to quit???
If it is a part of you, than you should be proud of who you are!!
This is the new millennium and we are all on this planet together.
If you hide your true self away, then it is very possible you will become self destructive! You are a beautiful person and God loves you whoever you are..
Be yourself!
2006-12-14 21:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by druboy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why quit what is not hurting others, and is not hurting you either? do what is good for you. grow with the experiences as well. you may really be on to a better life for yourself too as a result of it all. go for it sis!
2006-12-14 23:18:16 · answer #6 · answered by cadaholic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could not stop either. I finally had to learn to accept it within myself. I go out just about anywhere these days and it is fun.
2006-12-18 12:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am affraid to tell you that you can try to supress it but it won't go away,it is part of your make up ( no pun intended ) once you have accepted that it is part of who you are, you won't feel so silly ,talk to other cross dressers you are not alone...its good to talk
2006-12-17 11:28:10 · answer #8 · answered by loveb00ts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why quit? just accept it as part of who you are. There is nothing wrong with it as long as youre not hurting anyone.
2006-12-18 04:28:36 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't quit, you'll just dress-up again. That's just the way cross-dressing is.
2006-12-15 23:48:32 · answer #10 · answered by J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋