have just found out my partner has signed up for a site called sexcam.com i am not happy about this as there is no trust to begin with, we have 2 kids and are meant to be trying for our 3rd but after this i dont know if i should leave him what should i do? this is not the first time and he has cheated on me several times enough enough right ? help ?
2006-12-14 21:01:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thank you very much i know what i have to do, when i confront him he will lie he always does but this time it wont wash i think i will tell him as soon as xmas is over he is out so he betta atsrt looking for somewhere to live
2006-12-14 23:11:19 · update #1
If its not the first time then I'd seriously think about your relationship. If you can't rust him then what have you got left really? Take time to calm down and don't make any rash decisions whilst your angry. Look at your options and weigh up the advantages and disadvantages of both.
2006-12-14 21:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is like being an alcaholic. Once a person starts, it is very hard to stop. A cheater might feel guilt the first time or two but the longer it goes on, the easier it gets. Before too long, they are craiving the excitement that cheating gives them.
It sounds harsh but as others have pointed out on this forum...Once a cheater, always a cheater... Move on with your life, There are better people out there.
2006-12-14 21:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by Bill I 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to sit and ask him why he feels the need to log onto such sites. As much as it may disgust you, surely it's better then him going out cheating on you for real? We all have desires we want fulfilling and maybe this is what he is doing? However, if he's cheated before this couldbe a sign he's off down the wrong track again, so be careful.
2006-12-14 21:07:01 · answer #3 · answered by Sampter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enough really is enough...better to go now before you become pregnant again. This is not the sort of stable relationship that will last till your kids become 18 anyway, so why wait. You will only deny yourself the opportunity to find someone who will be there for you, and maybe take you out for dates, rather than have you watch the kids while they have one with someone else.
2006-12-14 22:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is easy for all of us to tell you to boot him out, the sensible and only option really but.................................we do not have feeling for him like you do, are not attached, are not commited to him and you have children with this man too. I don't believe that he will ever change, once a cheat and all that. But I feel for you truly, time of year does not help.
Get through Christmas maybe and the new year and then you will have to confront him on this, he is being so unfair to you. If he doesn't really want you for you then why would you want him. There is someone out there that will love you for who you are, never give up on that darling.
2006-12-14 21:24:08 · answer #5 · answered by Andrea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should be trying for a 3rd child at the moment especially if there is no trust in the relationship. Its up to you if you can handle his cheating but it sounds like its not something he is going to stop doing. If I were you I would seriously consider my future with this man.
2006-12-14 21:08:03 · answer #6 · answered by eeore 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem, went to the history of where my bf been on the internet and the same stuff came up - I asked him about it and he said it was just Pop Ups - can you believe it? Spam? No Ways!! Enough is enough - you deserve someone better!! Not only cant you trust him anymore, but this makes you doubt yourself!!
2006-12-14 21:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by Immortal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I am gathering you are not married because you refer to this person as my partner. He has cheated on you before, and you have no trust in him then why are you still there?
Its time to move on and think of the two children you already have. They come first and that is the bottom line.
2006-12-14 21:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by majean52 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is going round comes round, I say. as well, "dishonest" is once you cheat on the companion to whom you've a committment with. The "different lady" or "different guy" is only a touch bit relaxing on the aspect, till the cheater leaves their modern-day spouse/husband/companion and committs to an unique courting with their lover. Then its a case of go your palms and desire for the finest, reason you note of your companion is a cheater. Like I stated, what is going round comes round. also, if the cheater has no longer left/divorced their companion, then that shows that the companion remains the customary courting, for inspite of reason, they are nonetheless at the same time, in spite of what the cheater tells the sweetheart. the sweetheart has NO precise to make demands. the sweetheart, for sure, is loose to achieve some morals and pass on ought to they no longer like the region.
2016-10-18 07:53:32 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shud ask yourself do u want another child 2 b brought up 2 a untrustful house?? if its ur idea 2 have a child do u think that it will help keep him from wandering i dont!!
if you forgave him once he knows youll forgive him as many times as he wants because you want wats bst 4 d kids... well he doesnt sound like e is father or no father soz x x x gud luck
2006-12-14 21:15:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋