Arranged marriages are a norm in most of the Indian families where parents choose suitable partners for their children.
Women get the bad end of the deal coz not only dont they not know anything about the guy they marry, they have to give dowry, they are the ones who are expected to change, adjust, compromise, sacrifice according to their husband's desires.
So, girls, if u had the choice and ur parents would allow, would u choose arranged marriage or would u prefer to choose a person urself who is compatible and who u love, respect for an equal partnership of life?
2006-12-14
20:38:30
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arwa
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Family & Relationships
➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have witnessed many unhappy women in their 'good' marriages.The wives seem to have lost their identity, their passion.They just exsist obeying every desire of their husband and are treated like doormats.They do not love their husbands nor are they compatible but she gives up being herself to make the marriage work, she endures all kind of abuse and disrespect.......bcoz in the society, it would be said, '' this is how things are meant to be and that it is her duty/moral responsibility towards the marriage.
2006-12-14
20:40:12 ·
update #1